A girl is trying to shit test me/put me down when I'm with my LTR, why is that?

vandaalen · 2020-02-14T08:55:09+00:00

jealousy plus it's working

stop getting salty over children's banter. agree and amplyfy or straight out power flip and retaliate.

"have you always been that nerd pete?"

"have you always been that fat tiffany?"

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-02-14T09:46:04+00:00

She’s into you.

But you’re too much of a clueless retard to understand and not witty enough to give it back to her.

You’re gonna keep losing value in front of LTR, so amp up your jerk game and give her back twice what she’s giving you.

“Are you so much of a nerd Pete”

“Not in the bedroom but you’re not lucky enough to find out. “

There that’s a start 🤦🏼‍♂️

DullIntroduction · 2020-02-14T08:50:53+00:00

Why can't you handle a bit of banter?

grillinsteaks · 2020-02-14T13:59:35+00:00

The girl wants you and is pissed you have a LTR. Not sure if you want new girl and if not, shut it down. Now.

RedLegendx · 2020-02-14T08:50:09+00:00

Agree and amplify.

Its crazy how your gf is allowing her to do this infront of her, it’s like she’s indirectly telling you she wants to fuck you and that’s fine with her.

Domebeers · 2020-02-14T18:48:00+00:00

Are you 6?

This bitch wants to fuck. If you don't want to fuck her, put her in her place very harshly next time she acts up in front of your GF. Your GF will get so wet that you were mean to this bitch.

If you do want to fuck be discrete. Hit her up when no one is around, etc.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-02-14T19:55:17+00:00

It's weird, since she found out who I'm dating, whenever I'm with my LTR and she's there, she tries to make comments about me (indirect comments) or try to act like a "mother", ie, "listen to your GF pete!".

Deflect, redirect, pressure flip, A&A

The issue seems to be you care at alk about what a woman is saying in particular, and therefore didn't recognize shit testing when you heard it.

"Get out of here, Karen..... No you can't speak to the manager."

Today I made a joke about my old pet, and she said "have you always been that nerd pete?",

"Don't talk shit about type-of-animal-you-owned "

which pissed me off cause I’m not that kind of nerd anymore

Heh heh, ooopsie.You paid attention to what a woman said and you weren't listening to her actions.

Your bad.

By the way, Yes you're totally that kind of nerd, or else you wouldn't get defensive.

This is because you give a shit what some girl you hang out ocassionally around, thinks of you.

But that's OK, Just own that shit.

"What if I am. Come over here and do something about it...."

and she said to put me down in front of my girl.

Your girlfriend wasn't born yesterday, my son.

She knows jealousy in other women when she sees it, she's not a fucking moron.

This gives you a huuuuuuge amount of social proof, which is why you should just grin like a smug contemptuous bastard at both girls, and raise your glass at the Karen heckling you.

Why is this?

It's annoying because you're an insecure teenager inside and you believe what a woman says to you is vitally important to your precious self-image.

The cure to this is to DGAF.

I'm also afraid that if she keeps going like this, she's gonna end up commenting about me and her more explicitly,

GREAT!

Free social proof.

Remember that there is only one thing in the world that is worse than women talking about you. And that is them not talking about you and not knowing you exist.

and I'm not gonna let that shit fly.

What are you gonna do, cry, yell, cuss her out and act butthurt like a little bitch?

alphakari · 2020-02-14T16:16:16+00:00

Girl trying to find a comfortable frame.

Title	A girl is trying to shit test me/put me down when I'm with my LTR, why is that?
Author	lakster1
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	February 14, 2020 8:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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