Going back to the Church

pk_atheist · 2013-01-03T18:58:57+00:00

You know I well maintain that if my parents met today, they'd never have gotten married.

It was a different culture back then, they're well into their 60s now, and will never split. But they understood that marriage was a commitment, not an expression of love.

Today's women are trained the following way:

Following your emotions will make you happy.
If something makes you unhappy, you must not have been following your emotions.
Therefore, if something makes them unhappy, it goes to show that they did not opt for that decision, because following their emotions will make them happy, and therefore they follow their emotions.

It's circular reasoning, for sure, but nobody taught women that their decisions could possibly have a negative or less than perfect consequence.

Women will always make sure their emotions are number one. If that means you need to learn hardcore game to keep a marriage together, godspeed to you. But understand that marriage is not about happiness. Marriage is about a working family unit, and while there are happy times, there will be stressful times, unhappy times, and terrible times as well.

Standing strong as a man means pushing forward. We do not concern ourselves with our current emotional state. Instead, we put objectives in our head and work towards them. If something makes us unhappy, we make objectives to rectify the situation. Our current emotional state is something we work in spite of, not as slaves to.

Women, however, have no such inclination. If things don't feel right, something is going slightly wrong, she will see her changing emotional state as evidence that her decision was flawed all along. Leaving a marriage because of this is sound justification in the mind of a woman, which renders the contract of marriage moot.

Understand that in the old days, women were not brought up the way they are today. Before feminism, there was less freedom, and therefore it was not necessary to teach women consequence. Consequence was strictly a man's game.

Feminism took the lid off pandora's box, but the mothers, and the daughters of those mothers never internalized, learned, or passed down the concept of responsibility for their freedoms, only the freedom itself.

Women today lack the discipline for marriage.

People here may disagree with me, and it's true, if you can game well enough, you might still be able to "keep one." But make no mistake, it's Russian roulette with 5 chambers loaded. I'm going to argue that part of taking the red pill is letting go of the pipe dream that was marriage. Marriage is dead. Hypergamy reigns supreme.

legendofpasta · 2013-01-03T18:36:36+00:00

Its comforting to have you here. I bring my gf to church with me. I personally haven't missed a mass in years, although I might be the only 20 something in there, negating any game opportunity.

I've tried to force myself to be more alpha and I've seen some results. It's disgusting to me how well it works

Its absolutely sickening when you finally wake up and smell the coffee. Get used to it. Learn to master it. There is no going back. At least now you're in control.

I've been looking into Eastern Europe personally, not South America. I know some Eastern Europe women here on an exchange program and they tell me girls in EU fight for guys like me and never let them go. Its about as wholesome as you can get. The guys are allllll beta, and they get hounded by women who want the traditional life as a wife. Feminism has NOT taken route there.

The EU girls I know here think its weird that so many women are encouraged to work, and dress like whores and drink like fish and sleep around. The wholesomeness and beauty of these women radiate like a warm fire on a cold day.

I hope to one day be one of the few men who are able to leave this western chum-bucket society in hopes of greener pastures. I only wish I had learned a trade instead of accounting... because I could still lay bricks in english, you know?

renotime · 2013-01-03T20:54:57+00:00

My buddy is getting married. He is 25. His chick has never been with anyone else. Seems kind of old school, so maybe it will work out?

Kepaso · 2013-01-04T09:27:32+00:00

hey man i'm a full time atheist, raised by scientifics. I Love reading books, magazines, watching documentaries about science and history. I'm into this red pill thing because i love logic and try to see the real world. Never in my life i thought to stay with a religious person, even if i always respected religion in general. I ended up marrying a mexican catholic girl who belives in god, wich is for me like believing in a spaghetti lord. But religion gives you strenght and convictions, and the south american culture is more traditionnal, respectful. so go for it, explore the continent. my girl doenst judge me, she knows that im an atheist, and i dont judge her. shes open minded she doesnt believe about the 6 000 years earth and all that bullshit, most of mexican don't, i think its more of an american fundamentalist thing. i think you can have the best of both world if you go there.

[deleted] · 2013-01-03T20:12:52+00:00

I also grew up in a christian home. I married a woman who grew up christian, and she certainly doesn't subscribe to the beliefs of culture at large. I believe I'm extremely lucky in my choice of a wife, and don't have any fear of her leaving me due to emotional decisions (per pk_atheist above).

I'll say this: I've known enough girls that didn't grow up in the church to know I'd only ever want one who actually grew up in a traditional (read: oldfashioned) household. Frankly, I myself like it. My wife and I are a team, but there is no question that I am the boss in our home. I still constantly have to watch my actions to ensure that I don't undermine myself.

It seems to me that the old ways often can be better...

Title	Going back to the Church
Author	WolfInClothing
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	January 3, 2013 6:15 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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