Should I believe her?

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March 1, 2020

Girl told me she made out with a guy at a college party but I’m unsure whether to believe her. She wouldn’t go into too much detail but she did say she didn’t have sex nor any oral or finger play. There was groping but apparently no nudity. She swore to God on this.

They were in a room as well. This is a girl that goes to church and claims to be a devout Christian. She doesn’t go to parties often. Before God she had an N count of 2 and claims she hasn’t had sex since God came into her life.

Should I believe any of this or should I carefully watch and vet before proceeding with her?

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Title Should I believe her?
Author agoodcrayon
Upvotes 2
Comments 7
Date 01 March 2020 02:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]hopeunseen9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

100% next her. If you stay you're

A) setting yourself up as a low value doormat - subconsciously she'll always view you as the sad loser who was okay with his girl cheating on him. She will never 100% respect you

B) This woman clearly is not in a strong relationship with Christ. Not LTR material. If she acts this way when dating (which is while on "best behaviour") you don't want to even THINK about marrying her.

It sucks - I'm sorry it happened mate, but honestly you'll look back at this one day and realize you dodged a bullet.

Move on, and get to work making yourself the man his woman would never cheat on in the first place - And your next relationship will be much better.

[–]Torn4_0254 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next this girl dude. That N count is at least 20, not 2 and that guy nailed her. This has party girl written all over it. If she only kissed this guy there's no way you would even know. Women normally are extremely reluctant to confess any of their sexual history. This very limited confession is just her hamster at work to make herself look honest and to justify her sexual past.

Don't fall for it unless you want to end up having kids that ask if you told mom to find a new guy to make sure she is "taken care of" before leaving you.

Really she just walked right up and disqualified herself because she already selected you as beta. Your choices are dump her or become her emotional tampon. Marry her only if you have a fetish involving being denied sex.

If my comment seems harsh that's because I don't want to see you get into a doomed marriage. I know you can do better than her if you choose to put the effort into building the life you want most.

[–]Deep_Strength3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy


Billy is asking the right questions here. What's the context? Dates? Relationships? When and why are you asking these questions or did she volunteer the info>

How does she live her life now as opposed to in the past?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She swore to God on this.

Matthew 5:34 anyone?

claims she hasn’t had sex since God came into her life.

So she had sex previously then. The closer you are to 0, the better.

This isn't your wife so therefore don't be afraid to next her.

[–]Billy_King1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Questions for context:

What is your relationship with her? Have you been on dates with her?

Did this happen recently or was it a thing from the past?

Why did she tell you?

Why are you unsure of whether you believe her?

[–]Praexology1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Should I believe any of this . . .

Does it matter? Believe or don't, you should be exiting the relationship regardless of how much you trust her, because her actions are telling you she is being immodest.

Beside that men shouldn't be 'friends' with women anyway, what does a female friend provide to a man? Send her away.

[–]El0vution1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What are you, her guardian?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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