I am the most sexual and forward person I know, but not within my LTR. We have good to great sex but I don't do a lot of mental foreplay, sexting, kino etc.

2020-12-25T17:31:21+00:00

Stop giving her sex.

Until she begs for it.

Until that happens lift and improve your SMV.

maybe even have her see you flirt with a couple chicks (dread game)

When she does ask for sex, introduce some light bondage.

kclanton80 · 2020-12-25T23:22:54+00:00

She doesn't desire you because you are too nice, and beta with her. It's that simple.

You also don't dread her, and instill any competition anxiety with other women. You must ALWAYS make a woman jealous....even if you were married for 40 years. A Jealous woman is a requirement of a good relationship.

Women only want the guy that other women want. And you are not displaying to her in any shape or fashion that other women want you. So she has lost interest in you because you are safe and predictable and are no threat of going anywhere.

you probably do not spend time with any male friends. You probably do not go out without her. You probably spend way too much time with her which is an attraction killer.

This is all easily fixable. But can you overcome your irrational fear that she will leave you if you make her jealous? Believe that she will fuck your brains out if you make her jealous.

It has nothing to do with the sexting that's dumb..... It's only intriguing to a girl when she first meets a guy. You must display high value..... In some form or fashion. It's just that simple.... You are not doing that.

You have slipped into a comfortable relationships zone... And she is bored out of her mind. So find a life away from her.... Find ways to make her jealous...... Start interacting with other women (in front of her). Spend time with some male friends.

Sit back and prepare for amazing sex. Done.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-12-25T17:50:09+00:00

Today she hit me with "Im not really that horny these days... I feel numb."

You know, the ocean doesn't have an outlet, so if you throw a bunch of plastic trash in there, it washes back up on shore months later.

Garbage in, garbage out.

Because you're being boring.

Zero amused mastery frame from you these days. You don't act like you give a shit, sexually. Eventually she's going to treat you the same way.

Musicgoon · 2020-12-25T20:07:02+00:00

This is why we say a LTR is trp in hard mode. When you get into an LTR, you can't stop. It's no time to relax. You've got to keep gaming your girl and improving yourself.

It sounds like you got complacent and she dried up. You might want to try new things in the bedroom. Maybe try some dirty talk and some bdsm. Give her a bit of dread. Don't be as available.

If you don't challenge her, she will get bored. It sounds like sex has gone sideways.

Do you want to be there? If so, you should be intense, sexual, and adventurous when you're around her, and completely unavailable when you're not.

If not, cut the cord and send her back into the wild.

1pbetter · 2020-12-25T17:03:33+00:00

*meaning I didn't treat her as sexually as I do others

Title	I am the most sexual and forward person I know, but not within my LTR. We have good to great sex but I don't do a lot of mental foreplay, sexting, kino etc.
Author	1pbetter
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	December 25, 2020 5:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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