I just had the best daygame session of my young one year long day time cold approach career, so I'm in the spirit to share with you a FR from today with lessons learned.

This was the my third set of the day. The first two hooked well so not only was I socially warmed up, but I was riding a confident high as I headed into this one.

I was walking down the street here in a capital EE city, focusing on being present, keeping good loose posture, admiring girls bodies to keep me in a sexual state and trying to make seductive eye contact with all of the nice birds that floated past me when a mid-twentyish girl wearing skin tight black pants and a fitted striped shirt shot me a glance as she went by. I immediately turned around to scope her ass as her hips from the front suggested it was glorious. The hips don't lie.

I jogged back after her and got up close as I approached from the side. I got a little bit ahead of her to look back and make eye contact and then said. "hey excuse me, can I ask you something?" She stopped and said, "ok". I gave her a smirk and said, "how is your English?". She replied something along the lines of it being ok.

I then told her that she looked so good I had to come say hello. Before even letting her respond I said that I was curious if she was from Belarus because her hair was so dark that it didn't match the local look. She told me there are a lot of different looks and from there we had some chit chat of which I can't really remember.

The things that stand out from the rest of the set were at one point she got flustered because I was giving her pretty hard laser eyes. I backed off, touched her on the shoulder and said don't worry I'm a good guy. She giggled and it was back on.

Early in the set I introduced myself to get a little kino in with a handshake (generally if a girl will let you hold her hand when you give her a handshake it's a strong IOI). She told me her name and I teased her that all of the girls have her name and that there are only a handful of names in the whole country. This is where the first shit test comes in. She said, "oh, I guess you know all the girls names huh". Or something like that. I said, eh I'm a social guy, with strong eye contact and a smirk.

We got talking about models somehow and I said they aren't very attractive and that she better not get skinny like that. I grabbed her wrist and said this is how thick models' forearms are. She had a hard time with sexual tension so she backed off again.

I told her I had to get going and that we should exchange numbers to get to know each other better another time. She agreed. It seemed like an ok set but not even close to the best of the day. I had several others go quite a bit better but in daygame a strong interaction doesn't always mean much. Sometimes ones that you thought were brutal can come through.

The reason I picked this set out of the 7 or 8 that all hooked well that I did today was because of the text exchange after I got home later in the evening. When I shot her a text she replied immediately (strong IOI). We had a little back and forth guessing each others' ages. I guessed too high for her. I thought she was 27 but turned out she's only 24. She shot back with another strong shit test - she said I was a bad pick-up guy because I couldn't remember her name I couldn't even guess her age. I just ignored her and told her to tell me her real age.

She was asking me a bunch of mundane questions so instead answering them like a boring chode I told her if she wants to grill me with boring questions she'll have to do it on Wednesday night, in person.

This is where it gets interesting. She said ok but as long as I understand that she is in love. I asked her what she meant. She said that she has a boyfriend and that she is in love. Yet another shit test. I said ok I understand, lets meet at X location at 7 pm. She asked, "is that near your apartment? ))". I said no but we can meet at Y location which is must closer. She said ok.

So we're set to meet for Wednesday and she basically said that she has a boyfriend and just wants to fuck. Ok, cool. I'm 32. She's 24 and hot. This is what you can get when you put your balls on the line in the streets and get off Tinder (although admittedly I'm in a target rich environment).

Some daygame lessons:

  • Vibe is everything. Today for whatever reason I was just in a good, happy, flirty mood. Very little nerves. Very present.

  • As an exercise, when your walking in the street focus your energy in your legs and your feet. Helps get you out of your head and make you feel more grounded and confident.

  • To get better posture stand straight and roll your thumbs outwards. Unlocks your shoulders when you've been at a desk all day and helps get your chest sticking out a bit.

  • The mindset I take into an approach is that I want to meet this girl because I'm attracted to her and I'm offering the value by giving us both an opportunity to meet each other. I trying to find out who is interested in me. Plenty won't be but some definitely will be. It's my job to find them and present myself in the best way I can.

  • Father Figure Frame. When I'm walking around the streets I think that I am everyone's father. I am everyone's leader. I'm a 32 year old man who has seen and worked in different parts of the world. This frame makes me feel less confrontational and more confident. When you're with a girl always think like you're her father figure. You're the authority in her world. That gets her pussy wet.

  • There are lots of different ways to create sexual tension but the best ways are generally physical. In the street it doesn't need to be much. Hold her hand when you introduce yourself. Light touches on the shoulder to emphasize a point and when you tease her. I'm not the best at sexual tension verbally but you could comment on something you like about her or use some sexual innuendo.

  • Funny accusations are good ways to make the conversation less boring. For example, if its the afternoon and she's walking around accuse her of skipping out on work or school to get high/drunk.

  • If you want to suggest an idate, say her I have an idea, instead of standing here on the street lets go grab a coffee over here and chat for a bit.

  • You want to be forcing IOIs on the street. Most guys think IOIs are passive but they aren't. You should be trying to give girls your sexual energy. Look at them sexually. Make eye contact. Open your body language. All of this helps to get a girl to flick her hair at you or shoot you a glance and then you're in. Much easier to open off an IOI.