The GF and I have been together for 2 months. The raw attraction was there. She gets pissed when I leave her on "seen" on messenger, I am very easily able to get through her shit tests like when she acts pissy when I dont reply for a long time, she starts to get wet and starts cooing when I tell her that she will do what I tell her to do because I hold the ropes in this relationship, she starts getting excited when I tell her imma beat the shit out of her abusive ex etc. She tells me she has never met a guy like me before and I am her guardian angel.

Yesterday, I decided it was time to make things physical. So, I start off simple by doing some kino. She seems kind of excited at the beginning. But when I grab her breast, her mood totally changed.

Here is the conversation:

Her: "What are you doing?"

Me: "Well, I am a guy, and as you know, guys get into relationships for certain reasons, and it just so happens I kinda need those reasons fulfilled ;)" (In a flirty and sarcastic kind of way)

She: "HOLD UP HOLD UP. I feel like I am going to be sick, just stop. I thought you aren't like those other guys. I thought you wanted to keep our relationship pure until marriage. So what is all this?"

Me: "Don't be silly babe. You know you are the girl I am going to marry. In my eyes I already see you as mine. So why wait?"

She: "I don't even know you right now. You know my family is conservative. You know I was tricked by my ex to do all sorts of demeaning things. I thought you were different than that"

Me: (at this point I figure out im not getting any and now I need to save the relationship) "You misunderstand me babe. I wasn't planning for us to have sex. I just wanted to get closer to you but I would never break that boundary. You know I am your rock, your safe place, your angel. Always trust that I would never do anything that puts you in an unsafe position"

She: "....you know I trust you blindly babe. I will break if you ever do something to compromise that trust. Never leave me babe, stay with me always"

That satisfied her and she fell asleep in my arms and that was the end of it.

But now I'm like, wtf is going on? I thought I did everything to maintain frame in this relationship and to exhibit alpha traits. But she still doesnt wanna have sex with me whereas i know from her convos that she had sex with her abusive ex even tho they werent married.

Whats going on guys? What should I do?