Incels think they need a woman or sex to be happy but I don’t think that’s their problem. What they really need is someone who understands them and won’t judge them based on their past or shortcomings. I’m not an incel but I remember my years of getting bullied and rejected by women and it made me feel worthless. It also doesn’t help to see guys around me get girlfriends and I’m just asking myself “what did I do to deserve this?” So in a way, I can understand where incels are coming from. Constant mistreatment from society will leave you off being bitter and resentful and why won’t you? You seen the worst in people and even though you want to see the best, you start to doubt if there even is a best because all you’ve ever seen is the worst. But in the end, all I just wish was there to be someone who understood. The truth is no one cares about men’s issues or men’s mental health, not even feminists and women. In the end, is up to men to put themselves on the right track. I think what incels need is someone who understands them and is willing to listen. Telling them to just “gain confidence” or to “take a shower” only undermines their situation and doesn’t solve their problems at all.