Silly game

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-12-31T16:35:47+00:00

Isn't that dishonest and therefore a beta trait?

Alpha & beta isn't about morality, it's just sexual strategy. Being a coward, being a "nice guy" in order to get the pussy is beta. Learning game is not.

Even though we both know very well that I just want to fuck her and I don't give two shits about how interesting of a person she thinks she is?

Women aren't interesting. Get that off your mind. Interesting women are so rare that I don't think I've met more than 10 of them.

Women want to be sexually objectified, that's embedded in them.

A woman would feel better sucking the cock of a chad than she would if she found the cure for the cancer.

Be a good person, not a "nice guy".

vazeline200 · 2020-12-31T17:07:57+00:00

She knows you want to fuck her. The question in her mind is ‘are you worth fucking her?’ A man who is throwing compliments her way and pedastalizes her like she’s some sort of national treasure shows that he’s not used to women (at least women like her) and is thus inexperienced.

Besides a lack of preselection (why doesn’t anyone else want him?) it shows that he’s likely to be needy, will suck or won’t be that good in bed and won’t make her orgasm (due little or experience), will always be in her business. At the very worst he’s dangerous (some men kill women due to heartbreak).

It also implies there’s nothing much else going on in his life if she’s all that. All this from one compliment might be exaggeration but that’s what happens when the other 100 guys paid her a compliment and went onto be beta. The guy that swings far the other side will stick out.

To summarise think of all the things you react to as ‘meh’ not because they aren’t impressive but because you’re used to them. Some people would do cartwheels if you offered to take them to McDz. Would you?

BasilevsNihili · 2020-12-31T19:33:42+00:00

What's silly about it?

I act aloof and uninterested in her beauty,

No, you don't like a simp giving her free validation. If you want to engage a woman your best bet is being gun to hang with.

You're a male what means you have to take action. She's a female what means she has to vet you. Can't be simpler than that.

comcain · 2020-12-31T22:18:47+00:00

You badly need to read The Sidebar. Some generous soul even posted it as a .pdf file!

Happy New Year!

Meloxian · 2020-12-31T22:35:07+00:00

It’s not about acting aloof it’s about having other shit going on in your life; people, purpose etc. Where you actually dgaf and you don’t need to act. In that case it’s real af.

That being said direct game and cold approaching is technically valid trp philosophy, so if you want to go that route then work on that.

I’m more aloof but I’m purpose oriented my guy, id advise you to figure out yours and figure out what works best for you.

Title	Silly game
Author	AbusiveFather1
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	December 31, 2020 4:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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