Tinder: coffee or bar?

BritishHumourOnly · 2020-03-12T15:50:18+00:00

Coffee is cheap and you can still bang - student’s choice

beingamannotadayjob · 2020-03-12T10:28:50+00:00

Ask yourself: What do I enjoy more? I enjoy good bars that play live music or cozy café’s where we sit really close to each other.

Do you have a favorite bar or a favorite café? If yes, then take her to one of them.

Being “beta” or “alpha” is also the fact that one doesn’t know what he wants and therefore is more a follower than a leader and the other one knows his interests and won’t negotiate on that.

If the girl is cool, just tell her where to meet and then walk to your favorite place.

LegendarySuperSalsa · 2020-03-12T16:37:28+00:00

Do you just want to bang? Bar

Do you want to get to know her more with the possibility to bang? Coffee

DullIntroduction · 2020-03-12T08:27:21+00:00

She doesn't have to buy alcohol in a bar.

ziphias · 2020-03-12T17:14:35+00:00

Do what YOU want. Where has a cool vibe? What's your mood? Where will you have a good time? Usually, if you're enjoying yourself, she will fall into your frame.

I recently took a girl to a blues club. I love that kind of music but she never really listened to it before. The place was packed and very cool, I had an awesome time. Afterwards she told me how great of a time she had. Maybe she just actually liked the music, but maybe she enjoyed being with someone else who was having a great time, too.

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-12T19:17:01+00:00

I'd say bar but that's just because if I have a bad date I can still have a good time getting drunk.

Also being drunk increases my game x10

catz123456 · 2020-03-13T16:51:46+00:00

Always bar. A bit of alcohol and better atmosphere = better chance of getting laid. Never offer to get dinner or even appies. Keep it around $20. If you're not willing to even spend that much just go for a walk with her or something (aka free activity).

MindFuktd · 2020-03-14T09:04:52+00:00

Thoughts on flirting her in line, then if things are flowing PAYING for her, under the pretext of 'she'll get the next one's. (Auto implies comfort + multiple next meetups)

Title	Tinder: coffee or bar?
Author	AbusiveFather1
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	March 12, 2020 8:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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