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January 20, 2020

A married couple that I’m friends with are introducing me to a woman at a Church they go to and they say that they think we would get along and have common interests. I have a mission and vision and am wondering about the intricate details of how to go about this as I am much more of a “big-picture/idea” guy. Should one go for the phone number on the first meeting (after talking for a bit) or wait a few weeks of going to their Church to get her number. Obviously I still need to vet. But, I’m trying to prepare so there’s a plan in place. OI May be my problem here in that I am asking this question, but still wondering from some of my brethren that have been set up before or have experience with this realm considering this is the first time someone else has talked me up to another woman and connected/set-up a meeting between me and another person.

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Title Set up
Author SingularityOne198
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Date 20 January 2020 09:25 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]rocknrollchuck6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you hit it off well with her and find her attractive, then show your interest by asking her for her phone number before you leave. Don't be wishy-washy, be bold and just go for it. But don't say "Hey, can I get your number?" Instead, open your phone to the New Contact screen, hand it to her and say "Hey, you're pretty cool - I like you. Put your number in and let's get coffee later this week."

If she's nice but you just aren't attracted to her, then don't worry about it. If she tries to make it clear she wants to date you and you're not interested, just be direct and say something like "You're really nice, but honestly I'm just not attracted to you. But we can be friends."

[–]SingularityOne198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. This makes sense.

[–]afterthe_fapocalypse2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

why are you talking about mission and vision and intricate details (big picture) when you aren't even sure if you like her. slow down Gonzales

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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