I've lately been working out, making sure my clothes are clean and match well, smell nice, working on goals, and just generally taking care of myself. I get compliments on my clothes and hygiene constantly from women I know and don't know.

So could someone please explain how I got a girl I was talking too, snatched away from me by a former good friend of mine. This guy does not go to gym at all and it shows, wears almost the same clothes and shoes constantly, has a general nerdy demeanor, and constantly smokes weed all the time in typical stoner fashion. The girl I was talking to was about a HB 7.5, blonde, with a crazy fat ass and slim waist. I was so certain I had it. Everything was going so well with her until she started ghosting me more and more. Then I find out she's hanging with my friend and go over to his place constantly. Went to a party with my friend and she's blowing up his phone the whole time. Literally last night, we're talking on snap and she sends me a snap with him in the background. I'm not going to simp out and chase her, but I'm dumbfounded right now.

Again, this guy is just your typical stoner bro. Nothing really special about him, pretty skinny guy, with no real goals or ambition. It's just another case of the blonde and the bad boy. His game is decent, but really nothing special as he sometimes has bad simp tendencies. He doesn't even have a car yet. Some of you may tell me to lift more, but the guy that stole my plate doesn't lift for shit and is borderline lame. Idk, can someone explain this. Shit is confusing.