What I mean is once a chad pumps and dumps a girl sometimes she pines for chad years at a end. Probably obsessed because no one else has dumped her before, since most guys are orbiters/simps waiting for a chance to sniff her farts.

If women can rationalize that "oh bf only wanted me for sex and then the war bride effect" shouldnt the light switch effect suddenly remove chad from his pedestal?

My understanding is if another chad#2 comes in sometimes the chick is the war bride other times she still pines for chad#1.

Since she is sad, you've made her sad. Her objective reality states that you've done something wrong to make her sad. This is where a lot of arguments begin, because the man mistakenly will argue "you've taken what I said the wrong way, of course I didn't mean it that way," and to her, it doesn't matter what is rational or reasonable. She is sad and she wouldn't be sad if there wasn't a reason to be sad. Her sadness defined this reality for her. If you hadn't done something worthy of her being sad about, she simply wouldn't be sad.

Chad didnt commit to her and that makes her sad. So how come the light switch doesnt work here but instead her hamster obsesses over chad not committing and places him on a pedestal.

/4cax09/the_lightswitch_effect_why_women_rewrite_the/ article on man forum.