Let me tell you about the only true example of a man that has been in my life, that's right I don't consider my father to be a real man.

My uncle is the man that married the hottest girl in his circle, he is the type of person that just can't get angry no matter what. No matter how many punches he takes he won't get mad at you. But he will beat you senseless, in a second, in the spot, if you threaten his family or his employees.

If you looked at him from afar, you'd be hesitant to talk to him, he doesn't have a bitch resting face, but his looks make him look that he is not the guy to be messed with. And yet, when he talks to you, you can't help but feel at ease, he is careful with his words and he doesn't use a lot of them. He takes himself very seriously but still knows how to give you a good tease. He is confident, he doesn't sell himself to anybody, instead he sells what he is able to do. He takes pleasure in solving problems, he will say to you: let me take care of it, you'll see. And he will follow through sooner than expected. He is street smart. The most important thing for him is his own interest, even though he will try and be just and fair the best way he can, he knows how the world works, he knows his two sons and wife need the best, so he is willing to put you aside if it means getting an edge. It doesn't matter if it's his father, his mother, or his brothers. He comes first, because his family needs him.

No matter where he is, there is always someone who will recognise him. He is a business man. He is a salesman, a manager, a down-to-earth type of guy who is willing to be friends with the crackhead or gang member, while he also has friends in the government. He has friends everywhere and anywhere. My aunt, his wife, often boasts that they can't go anywhere without someone saluting my uncle, and that even though he doesn't even recognise them in the spot, he ends up having a good laugh at the end of the conversation.

Unlike the rest of us, he is a natural, but don't let it stop you from learning from him. He is the first son of three, of a man who came from nothing and moved to a bigger city to make business. There was nothing his parents would deny from him, he was the favorite, he received every bit of validation possible from his parents and extended family, but he used all this massive support from his family in the right way. He was an A's student, while also being captain of the soccer team. They gave him a car, a sports car, jewelry, nice clothes, and he got paid to go to business school. But he still walked to see his friends, he hid his jewelry so he could hang out with the guys in the poorer neighborhoods, which resulted in him knowing how to fight, how to deal with crackheads, how to befriend people who are not educated, and more.

He took charge of his father business, which almost went bankrupt after his father got sick and ultimately died, his father left my uncle with a ton of tax issues. Which he never talked about, not once, for 10 years. He was in deep financial shit, and for 10 years all the hard work, all the effort he put in, yielded no fruits for him, it all went to debt. And he never complained. He is a drinker, no way to get around that, but he puts food in the table, he loves his wife and his kids, so who's gonna give him shit?

My uncle had a couple of highschool friends when he was 18, they all played soccer, but he was the most attractive of the group, I don't think if he chose this friend group to stand out, he simply was focused on having a good time. Once one of his buddies told him about a certain church that held meetings for teenagers, and that the girls were hot. As soon as the first saturday meeting, my uncle approached my aunt and told his friends to stay away from her. They added her and some other girls to their circle and started going out. One time after going out as a group my uncle took my aunt by the arm, pulling her aside from the rest of the group and told her 'I want you to go out with just me for a movie'. Now, my aunt used to babysit me and sometimes she would make me take a shower together, she had massive tits, and she played volleyball, so she had the thighs and ass. Needless to say she had a lot of attention. Which is why my uncle, without being possesive and jealous, would make sure that every friend of hers knew that she was taken. Whenever they went out, he held her hand, and when they ran into a group of her friends, and a male friend tried to kiss her in the cheek (common gesture in some countries), my uncle would pull her by the arm, leaving the guy hanging, and then go 'hey how you doing'

(I used this in a similar way and it is very very powerful. A plate invited me to a party from her faculty, and some guy, I don't know if one of her beta orbiters, offered her a beer while she was with me. I took it abruptly from his hand, and said thanks sarcastically. Everybody around us was shook, and my plate couldn't decide between being mad or horny at me. A good power move

My aunt and uncle got into a LTR for 8 fucking years, and just because he got her pregnant he married her, they got married at 25. Their 15th anniversary is this year. And not once, has my aunt been unhappy. She doesn't work, she drives a brand new truck, she lives in a nice house, she has every need taken care of. Her job is to take care of his kids, feed them, educate them. And then at night, if it's not poker night, he takes her to a bowling tournament. There is always some fun that he chooses to share with her. A wedding, a dance, a trip. He games her constantly, it's like they never stopped dating.

Now, she is loyal to him, but he has his plates. And I would never tell my aunt. You just can not respect him