I know it's a basic and simple question, but it has been on my mind for quite a while.

This thought began just an hour ago when a friend left a comment on a certain Instagram post of mine. He's a good buddy, the man who first introduced me to the ways of TRP. His comment lacked gracefulness, and I wished not to interact in conversation with rudeness and unmannerly remarks. I left no reply.

The problem of modern men is not only about the self-defeating competition against himself in fucking women. The problem is also about how they talk without using their brain. Some people express rudeness without even the slightest consideration. Maybe it's a cultural thing, maybe not. Who cares, any socially intelligent man expresses his opinions with poise. In layman's terms, he is not viewed as trash by society.

I'm in my mid-20s and I'm starting to find my own lane, knowing who I really am. Gone was the guy who displays rakish behavior. Gone was the guy who objectifies women. There's a certain place for a man to act that way and that's when he is a boy. I want to be elegant and would act the part growing up.

TRP is a body of knowledge. Since it has originated from the persepective of insecurity and a lack of self-confidence, the ones that 'awaken' learn the truth behind why things are the way they are, but they fail to identify a deeper side of self-development and it is true acceptance of what is, while applying the truth and not altering himself to what he is not.

As Rollo once said, "personality is not static." Best to be yourself while applying what you know of the truth. People, and not just women, could intuitively smell from a mile away whether you are being true to yourself or you are just playing a character based on your imagination from the truth.

Confidence is acceptance of what you really are–your strengths, your weaknesses, you are all of them. Embrace them and play them to your advantage.

Guys introduced to the facets of TRP turn to a more materialistic approach of application, while failing to regard to age well with it. Like fine wine, it takes years of intensive care to taste its best flavor. Only then can we say that the juice is well worth the squeeze.

Yesterday, some guy posted on this sub about his frustrations from living the TRP life. Despite his 'years of self-education' with the knowledge and truth, he has found no meaning from fucking around with countless women he encountered throughout his journey. TRP is not a cycle of fucking women over and over, nor is it a game of who gets more lays than who, but rather it is a means of getting to know more about the self and how it can be refined further growing up.

I'm turning 27 this year. Most of my buds still act like they are still in college, being reckless and disregarding the perception of what people think of them. Boys will be boys, so the saying goes. But also, boys turn into men and it starts from a shift in mindset.

Sure, priorities change as men grow up. They get married. Get frustrated by their wives. We all know this premise way too much. Of course, it's a shame if you don't realize that we are the ones who should recognize this narrative more than the other guys. The narrative has been the same ever since Eve ate the apple.

What's more important growing up is the mindset. At age 30-35, fucking women wouldn't be the main priority, heck it wouldn't even be an issue, because the mindset has changed. Counting the number of lays has its own place in the life of a TRP-ed man... but growing up elegantly is what drives value even further into the sexual market place--sometimes I cringe even mentioning these terms because they all seem to stem from technicality, that it seems so unnatural for a man in the perspective of a woman.

Sure, ok, not giving a fuck what people think is what other people would argue... but I have considered that I do give a fuck about what people think because everything boils down to how much people would like to associate with me. May it be in business, peers, or even as shallow as the women I attract.

I find that a handful of people in the TRP community values the knowledge behind the ideologies to its utmost potential. However, some guys fail to realize that women are not only sexual objects of desire, as a way to compensate for self-improvement and progress, but people also degrade themselves by doing this. And that is not very elegant.

I think elegance is the highest form of value (in all the market places in the economy of human relations) caused by a clean mindset, intention, and discipline.

Don't you guys agree?