There was a time when I was as as bluepilled as they come, happily deluded in a healthy relationship, head in the clouds, happy as I could be. Then we all know what happens. RedPill hammer came down hard and I got into self-improvement hard, like psychotic hard. I made crazy progress over the course of 2 years. Life was good, pussy was even better, but staring in the mirror and loving what I was seeing made me happier.

I thought I could go further, hence - gave up on every source of instant dopamine available to me and set out on my own little path to see just how far can a healthy male go without shit weighing him down. I sold the TV, PS4, games, phones, everything that was consuming my time and invested those couple thousand dollars in good books, gym supplements and clothes.

I got super busy and needless to say, ladies noticed. Seeing me was pretty hard and everyone was jumping at the chance to fuck me. I liked this shit, it made me feel all-powerful, Three months in, I made a stupid mistake, cleared my schedule for women and of course all of the easy pussy started to fade away, slowly but surely.

I have fucked twice a day and it was good, but I have worked 12 hours a day, went to gym, then home, meditated and went to sleep and it was better. I don't care what many of pussy thirsty bluepills (maybe even redpills) say, being happy with myself and working my way up the ladder is thousand times better than being adored by opposite sex, but as it turned out it's a huge paradox.

I completely decided to forget about women, at least until I hit 30 (got good five years left). I only kept one plate and made a commitment to see her only twice a month. Other than that, it was my business, gym, books, meditation and motorcycle assembling in my garage.

Let's pause - If anyone takes anything from this long ass post, this is the only thing - when I completely stopped caring about women and sex, I started treating them as one of my own dudes. No matter how tight your game is, you do not treat women with an IDGAF attitude, not as long as you're trying to fuck them. It just does not happen. Ladies pick up on that, even if you're the fucking God of fake-it-till-you-make-it.

I ignored them at the office, treated girls when they consumed more than should of my time, said whatever the fuck I wanted to say, left them dry whenever I felt like it, never explained shit, nothing they could say or do would ever hurt me. This is what gave me a rock solid frame and the world around me had already changed.

I went full asshole mode and put a heavy price on 15 minute conversation with me. Whoever dropped a hint at sex, I would straight out text "I'm available between 9:00 and 9:40, come and leave quickly". I could play cool in any situation, I was the fucking God of not caring and it was not fake, it was genuine, pussy was forgotten and I was getting more of it than ever.

I do not game (not until they initiated enough that pulling down their panties is the only thing I have left to do), I do not tolerate LMR shit, if you don't want to fuck, go out the window, I do not give women my time unless I'm sure they're down to fuck.

I no more do cold approaching, I do not hit on women anymore, I work hard 6 days and party hard on Sundays. I got a tight social circle at clubs and at the office, men respect me and women like to be around me. I do not initiate conversations, maybe only when I tease them brutally. I only follow up women who have made real effort to get close to me IRL and I never text back unless I have something to gain in bed.

Women are no more part of my cognitive process, I read great books, lift a ton on the bench, meditate like Osho and drive bike that I have assembled myself. That is my orgasm for now, this is the shit that makes me happy to get out of bed and when I'm 30, I will change my lifestyle drastically, free up my time, maybe even do Netflix n chill or take my date to a nice movie.

Why in the fuck would I ever do that? My biggest problem solved itself. I cared and got some now I don't care and get a whole lot more, for considerably less time and sacrifice. If previously 5 hours of my time equaled 1 hour in bed, now guess what - this shit reversed, the tables have turned.

The secret sauce to getting pussy is not a tight game or big triceps, nor is it Ferrari f40 or finding her g spot every time, it is NOT CARING, and I do not mean not giving a fuck, that shit is always fake. Not caring in an honest, sincere way, when you truly got some other shit to do will attract women who you would never thought you could have ever fucked.

I could have had a quick fuck in the time I spent on writing this post, but I prefer sitting on my laptop and sharing valuable shit with those who need it. This life is so much better, you can not imagine, I did not care before as well, but then I had nothing real to do in my life and I was faking it. Needless to say it did not work, but now that I do, it works.

This shit is mysterious, it rewards you with more when you give less to sacrifice and do not get me wrong, I didn't make up all the busy, self-improvement lifestyle just to attract the ladies, I did it when I was fed up with game, shit tests and texting, it just was not worth it, now I'm like a hot, hard-to-get bitch. I'm beginning to imagine how much easier women have it than men.

Live your life according to your own rules. Want to be a PUA? - Go ahead and be one. Want to work on your game all day long and interact through cold approaches? - Awesome, that will improve the pussy quality in your life. Want to get on tinder hard? - I don't care, do whatever the fuck you want.

I shared what I did and how my life turned out and I'm glad, happier than ever. This is me sharing some important ass experience with you. I know we've all heard this shit a gazillion times, but until you have it in your life, it just is not real. Do your thing if it makes you happy - whatever it is, I'm doing mine and living the shit out of this life and I'm happy, very fucking happy.

Peace out.

tl;dr - read the fucking thing.