Basically met this 21 y/o model chick on Tinder who told me she had genital herps on date 2, banged her anyway. Turns out we actually have a lot in common in terms of values, had some good about future goals, etc. Out of my 4 plates she’s by far the most skilled and beautiful, seems to have a rich family. She didn’t put out on Date 1, and even on Date 2 I pretty much had to sit on her face to initiate the sex.

After she left I started having doubts cuz of her herps, and the next day she asked if she could come over again, to which I tell her I had some work come up, so no. Keep in mind we only had two dates, she texts me:

“I hate how strong my emotions are for you. My heart hurts knowing I cannot see you tonight but I know how important work is. I would never compromise your career. I admire how much you care about it.”

Now idk if the connection was just me loving the fact I was banging a model and her abusing that OR if it was genuine, but I for sure wasn’t risking living my life with herpes, so a couple days after that she asks if she can come over again, and then I tell her we shouldn’t see each other.

She tells me I get one more chance, but if I really don’t want to see her because of that I should never talk to her again. I said bye.

I’m 24 and that was my first time feeling that kind if connection with a woman, but I’m not sure if I was overreacting to herpes. What do you guys think?

tl;dr banged a model chick with herpes, thought we had a connection but had to end it due to herpes scare. Hoping if I overreacted this chick was potentially bsc