I want to start a conversation about this. Domestic violence. I know men suffer close to as much as women in DV, and while untracked, possibly multiple times more than women when counting emotional violence as well.

My question is - what is your experience about men getting violent with their partners. I have seen multiple instances where men who would never get angry, ended up becoming very angry after meeting a new partner (who we could all see was emotionally abusive). Some of them escalated to punching walls, banging on the cars etc, and one even slapped his partner - shocking to anyone who knew him, luckily he broke up soon after.

How many of you have noticed this pattern of emotional abuse by a women, leading to anger and violence in otherwise perfectly nice men? I know mainstream media keeps shutting down any "victim blaming" but there used to be a lot of studies which talk about this aspect, but very hard to find them these days. Would love to hear what others think.