How to move on with life

slurms_mac · 2015-09-24T18:56:12+00:00

She wants to meet up so she can get you back in her orbit. You proved to be a useful orbiter in the past, and she needs your loyalty, so she can use you.

blaze604 · 2015-09-24T19:43:41+00:00

'If you wanna fuck, you have my number, don't call me otherwise, thanks'

that's literally how I handled my ex's, got a few bj's from it. Just don't get into a relationship with her again, just use her if she agrees to it. And kick her out once you get what you want, no need for small talk

abdada · 2015-09-24T18:49:59+00:00

The definition of masculinity is moving on with life every moment.

The only thing you have that is yours and is always yours is your life. Everything else can change, which is why abundance of all things is important.

In terms of "this girl", just next her and don't reply to her inquiries.

How did she find out you were in her neighborhood if you block her?

doubleplustwo · 2015-09-24T19:22:23+00:00

Take the path of least emotional turmoil.

the_red_scimitar · 2015-09-24T19:25:34+00:00

You're really not ready for what a "true RP" would do. Seriously. If you have to ask that last sentence, just... do whatever, and let us know.

rRaptorJesus · 2015-09-24T19:38:04+00:00

You would be putting yourself in a high risk situation to undo the progress you've made (which you've only just taken the first steps it sounds like).

At best you will be recaptured into her orbit, eating you're time and pretending to be your friend. She is not your friend and the vast majority of women absolutely lack the capacity for real friendship. At worst you might just get what you want (to fuck her) and then have your heart ripped out as you back slide into full beta.

Go lift, and go approach. And if you have to, get angry - just don't stay that way.

Edit: good job giving her the boot in the first place, if you have a couple other chicks you're fucking on the regular, then go for it. If not, then you're probably too vulnerable at this stage to get involved with her.

permashred · 2015-09-24T18:52:13+00:00

If you can fuck her, then do what Fred told you to do and phucker right in the pussy, but establish boundaries about what you want so you don't get walked all over again. If you can't fuck her, then cut her out of your life cuz either it's never gonna happen or if it does in the future it'll come with a lot of emotional baggage.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-09-24T19:42:42+00:00

Whereas it is almost always impossible to move directly from friendzone/orbiter, it's sometimes possible after a no-contact reset period where you return with higher SMV and a new level of game.

Once you've truely made the improvements to yourself, both internally and externally, what usually happens when you can finally successfully game the woman you couldn't get before, is a firm realization that she's actually not worth having even as a plate.

No sense throwing away an opportunity to test and practice your RP progression. Meet her, and be assertive (not aggressive) with your game. If she gets tingles, game on; if she tries to put you in the friendzone again you can walk away decisively with no remorse.

friendlysociopathic · 2015-09-24T20:43:47+00:00

Keep your distance and never contact her again. Simple. Anything other than this is stupid.

GrandmasterHurricane · 2015-09-24T22:18:19+00:00

It needs to be strictly sexual. Any contact you do has to be strictly sexual. You're better off bring labeled as "the asshole who told me to hit him up only if I want to get fucked hard" than "this guy who pretended to be my friend and got mad when I told him I didn't want him". At least with the asshole rep get friends and other people she talks to will know that you're a take no prisoners kind of guy.

MachiavellianRed · 2015-09-24T23:54:04+00:00

/r/asktrp

iLLprincipLeS · 2015-09-24T22:18:37+00:00

So I've been friends with this girl for 4 years

you mean your orbited for 4 years? you had anyone else in those 4 years or were waiting for a miracle?

treated me like I was the best thing that happened to her.

how? oh, you mean you were her doormat.

so here is my question , do I

are you ready?

she still desires being friends

did you learn nothing from the 1st time?

What would

spin her. it will be hilariously easy if you already have another plate. if you want a mental incentive, remember how she used you for so much time.

let us descend now into the blind world

RationalistFaith1 · 2015-09-24T22:26:51+00:00

Focus on the present, ignore her. Even your attention is too precious for black holes like this girl.

Title	How to move on with life
Author	dante2702
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	September 24, 2015 6:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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