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[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I dun geddit :(
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 133 points134 points135 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
They are toxic, evil & frustrated and they teach their kids the same. Kids go to school and act as their moms and bully others.
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[–]kingofvirgins12362 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is correct. I was raised by a single mother who once beat the shit out of me because I went to school wearing torn jeans. (She didn't want people to think we were poor, which we were). She even clearly stated that finding a rich boyfriend was more important than raising me.
It didn't make me want to bully others. It made me into a weak, shy, scrawny victim who was constantly bullied by others because I was too afraid to fight back.
Now she wants me to "man up", "find a girlfriend", "grow the fuck up and stop playing video games" Lol. And she wonders why I'm still a virgin.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And she wonders why I'm still a virgin.
Closer to 50 than 40. I wish I had your "problem".
[–]Mnyagatownyans36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same goes for me. I'm 23 and to this day I'm still heavily struggling with unfucking myself. I tend to have a few days where I seem cool like I'm normal but in my head there's so much shit going on that no one knows about and I can always trace it back to being raised by women.
[–]Ody_ssey43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Single moms who initiate divorce for promiscuity are the worst parent for a child. Kids raised by them tend to be more violent, alcoholic, drug abuse, poor personality and lack career vision. They learn the same behaviour their moms have.
[–]kingofvirgins12321 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. Can confirm this. I am an alcoholic drug using virgin. I was seeing my mother constantly belittle my father (who left when I was 3) because he was worthless, broke, ect.
Meanwhile, she was hooking up with richer more successful guys. It really fucked me up mentally.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Any advice on Career vision bro, thats holding me back right now?
[–]Ody_ssey1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are into technical field, learn Python. Your career will skyrocket.
[–]thenotoriousdougie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
80% of the prison population is from single mother households.
[–]atomic_pikle3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's very interesting can I have the source mate?
[–]ThaiEscapePlan16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
google is your friend (not really but helpful in this instance).
https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics
In 1996, 70% of inmates in state juvenile detention centers serving long sentences, were raised by single mothers. Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents”, IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June, 1997
those numbers are old, but wanna bet they are better today?
[–]atomic_pikle2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank verry much mate
[–]ThaiEscapePlan3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I live in Toronto. our crime rate is being driven by feral black youths who have no father in the home. it is not racism, it is reality. young men need fathers and if they dont have them at home they will seek them out in gangs. We just had a violent bank robbery gang arrested here. A trio of robbers with guns and knives. four tellers were injured, two were stabbed. the ages of the criminals: 16, 15, 13. The next day it was reported that the mother and grandmother were in court while the 13 year old was rolling his eyes during the court proceedings. no father present. this is a deep seated cultural problem that we are dealing with.
[–]Zachjsrf21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Quadens mom is a real POS. Basically scammed everyone out of $500k, I believe he got bullied but I also believe his mom is a scumbag.
[–]Redhood61612 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The single mom effect is disadvantaging every male that comes in contact with them and/or lives in their state/province.
They fk up their sons, they burden their fathers, brothers, grad fathers to support them & their kids as well as act as a father-figure, they torment mentally, physically and financially any idiot foolish enough to date them, they cause issues for their employers, and their mistakes are subsidized by the tax payers (most net tax payers being males)
[–]udsdown8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
#FeelsForQuaden
[–]slamdunktiger865 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya, send your kids to public indoctrination camps. They’ll be socialized with all the other abuses and traumatized kids. Let feminist teachers with the lowest SAT scores of all college graduates educate your kids.
Oh ya, you’re a boy? Won’t behave like a girl? It’s ADHD drugs for you mang.
[–]wereretot6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Join Ruqqus and join +MGTOW.
[–]orishasinc25 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now that I think about it, I was raised mostly by women. My dad, who was not an angel either, had passed away and my uncles went oversea to try to earn some money. I was left with females for the most, which does not bode too well for a young man inner development. To be honest, I was spoiled, enabled, and given little guidance or tough love. I learned to distrust any male authority while embracing mediocrity. It took me almost 15 years to undo such influence in my life. Now, I am pretty tough with myself in a sense but also with others. I am pretty hard, almost physical ( I have used sports and boxing especially as a coping mechanism). Honestly, it could have been drugs or alcohol so I am not too upset either. But I have lacked emotional balance as I have gone from being a sensitive romantic to a rough unexpressive macho. One important thing is that I have learned to respect Men in general and what they go through. I have even forgiven my late father, and I respect my boss and other male authority figures. I do not see other dudes as competition and I am actually even a bit sorry for them when I see them dealing with some females bullshit. When I talk to a couple, I interact with the man first and sometimes don't even worry about the "queen" presence. I shake hands, say hello, and even try to make peace with young guys after a challenge or a fight ( I am still involved in sports). I understand what goes through the mind of a Man and I try to be lenient and forgiving. Honesty, I could have turned out to be a violent criminal hadn't it be sports in my life as I turned from a nice sweet boy to a frustrated overly aggressive teen. So it does make sense that being raised by women lead to extreme cases of personality disorders in young men, and, especially the issue of criminals coming out of dysfunctional women dominated families. I lucked out but not without deep side effects I am still struggling to cleanse out in my 30s.
[–]Since163 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My mom is straight up toxic. She didnt have custody of me my dad did and in my 30s bitches about not trying harder to get custody. Like i never in my fucking life expressed i wanted to live with her. She just wanted the child support. I told her a few times i caught her lamenting not being able to enrich herself while starving me that i would have joined a violent street gang in her neighborhood.
I would have gladly turned to a life of crime rather than that bitching. She literally could not punish you every day was a punishment she complains like you just committed a hate crime in civil conversations.
[–]GSstreetfighter1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/raisedbynarcississts
r/raisedbyborderlines
[–]taroopher0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look, the boy crying is the one without a father. A boy with a REAL father would tell him how to defend himself
[–]HiveMindKing0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn this is what my mom did to my brother. He became a bully and then an addict.
[–]juice_bomb0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was raised by my single mother from the age of 14. I became weak, unable to deal with emotions and problem situations. Until I learned from males around me at age 18-20. It can have the opposite effect too.
[–]perpleqz0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My father died when I was 5 so I was also basically raised by a single mom. I still came out fine though.
[–]joshcow0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OOOh maybe this is the upvote that gets me in touble!!!
[–]bpdloveoflife-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
These kind of generalizations rarely holds true.
[–]Ody_ssey0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is hold true for those single moms who initiates divorce for promiscuity.
[–]GSstreetfighter-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is simply one person's attempt to explain where bullies come from.
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