We have a rare specimen here, someone taking responsibility, how refreshing

CertainCrow1 · 2020-02-24T19:34:41+00:00

Honestly.. no need to try and explain away how she's a chameleon or trying to read between the lines... Just give credit where credit is due. What is said in the post is solid advice and sounds like they're at least walking in the right direction. At least striving to do what's right. Respect.

This doesn't mean she's a great catch. Still has mental illnesses that must be hard for her partner to deal with. She's doing what is in her control by the sounds of it. What more does a person want? Sometimes intentions are not enough but it goes a long way in my book to see someone trying. As long as they don't wear it as a trophy. This comes across as someone trying to motivate others though

Fairfax_Cary · 2020-02-24T18:15:26+00:00

Chameleon. Very strange variation of it, but still chameleon nonetheless.j

ncarolina66 · 2020-02-24T18:28:23+00:00

Yes she gets it....too bad it took mental illness to do it.

NathanHollister · 2020-02-24T18:06:15+00:00

Somebody gets it, thank God.

DangZagnut · 2020-02-24T18:06:12+00:00

Same as a feminist. The second she isn’t accomplishing anything (they never do) and just whine about oppression (they always do) then they’re not even worth talking to.

Rottinghere · 2020-02-24T18:01:59+00:00

Meh...

graydoggames · 2020-02-24T19:21:44+00:00

Probably a guy posting as a woman...

TheRabbitTunnel · 2020-02-24T19:26:33+00:00

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk

Lmao. Yeah, this was so intellectual and profound. You should make speeches for a living.

Shimakaze4 · 2020-02-24T22:43:14+00:00

Women know women mate, she knows the gig and how women act to extract resources and attention.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-02-24T19:01:15+00:00

Remember that nothing drills through bluepilled men heads.they'll hamster a way to confirm their gf mental illness is different

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-02-24T21:08:45+00:00

Good for her. That's exactly right. Having depression, anxiety, etc. does not absolve you of responsibility for your behavior.

bhullj11 · 2020-02-24T21:21:16+00:00

99.9% of us are not dealt a perfect hand. We all have something. It’s never an excuse for poor behavior.

DKN3 · 2020-02-24T22:18:12+00:00

Maybe he is a man y’all

Whirrlz · 2020-02-24T22:27:29+00:00

As good as that sounds. No other girl will read it and or follow by it.

2020-02-24T18:38:04+00:00

Wow, never thought I'd see the day.

bpdloveoflife · 2020-02-24T22:15:43+00:00

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bpdloveoflife · 2020-02-24T22:36:19+00:00

Kudos to this girl. Really, we need more people who can talk openly about mental illness and what it does to their loved ones. For what its worth, its extremely hard to get help for people with BPD/bipolar etc, because part of their disorder is being delusional about their own issues.

frikabg · 2020-02-24T23:32:31+00:00

Still falling for the trap to congratulate people who are doing the bare minimum. 'Ohh I am managing my mental illnesses and not abusing my partner!' 'Look at her guys isn't she great?!' yeah fuck all of that! The bare minimum should be for you not to be abusive toward your partner and managing your self and your feelings we are at the point where that is something exceptional? Lol ok well go for it if you want to but count me out. It is not a matter of 'you are negative' it is a matter of realism and realistically you don't thank people for not abusing you.

CHAD_TDK · 2020-02-24T21:24:02+00:00

These are the 3 worst cases of mental illness:

Believing that "the special one" and the relationship will solve your problems so that you can then be happy.
Believing that you are "the special one" and looking for a relationship in order to solve someone's problems so that s/he can then be happy.
When 1 & 2 meet

NOTE: RomComs and "Romantic" shit promote those behaviors.

Asperger_Mgtow · 2020-02-24T22:24:01+00:00

Believe me or not MANY, i mean, MANY women are FURIOUS about this situation.

Many of them have advise myself to go mgtow. Many of them are learning about social engineering. Many men wether strictly mgtow or not are too.

I have elements that makes me believe Feminism is a mass scam made showing to the women a false model represented by undiagnosed and perfectly unaware innocent Aspergic women, because, as their brains are more similar to a male than a female one, they have male capacities and behaviours. Problem is, we don't have technology, science and a society aware of this.

Even a female aspie came here and wrote me telling she had the symptoms i try to describe, but administrators gave me no time to talk with her and banned too before i could try to have a talk.

Membeers of this: you have a serious reason to be FURIOUS, and i mean with capital letters, FURIOUS, BLOOD BOILING FURIOUS, because this is mass abuse made by social engineered and we are all collectively affected. We have to learn rapidly who's the real perpetrator and fight it!

Women has never ever intented to bring the world to this stage on their own minds, SOCIAL ENGINEERS are the ones who usurped their minds using their deep knowledge of human mind. They actuall even want us to fight women wich are nothing more than a very cunning scapegoat, while they stay unseen and flying under our radar. They got both genders sanding each other reducing makind to sawdust.

The only sane thing we can do now is to stay alone, yet, trying to identify and fight the real enemy. Women has their minds hijacked and we have to stop this. Otherwise this situation will never end and real perpetrators will have no charge for what they did to them and us.

mgthrower · 2020-02-24T23:46:06+00:00

My general rule is stay the hell away from mental illness. Girlfriends and even friends I've had in the past who claim anxiety or depression will do their best to drag you down and make you miserable all while maintaining sympathy for them.

At some point, after saying "I just can't go out tonight" or "this job is too much for me" they have to hear those magic three words "I don't care"

It doesn't matter what you do for them, how strong you stay for them, or the support you give. They'll never appreciate you in any way other than (occasianally) verbally.

I always tried to lift those I found broken. I don't anymore. They can only cry so many times before all tears become meaningless.

2020-02-25T00:35:01+00:00

AWALT. Always.

barkingtree25 · 2020-02-25T01:51:00+00:00

Yup. But most women wont read this. I have BPD and am extremely narcissistic and realize that. I try to fix it and make sure not to keep close friends or ever have kids (not that id get married anyway) because I know how bad I would treat them. Fuck I literally scream at randomers on the street for no reason if they do a tiny thing that bugs me cant imagine what id be like with kids.

Difference is I know this and take actions accordingly. This woman is the unicorn who realizes this is important. 99% do not nor will they ever

wallacescott1000 · 2020-02-25T04:06:37+00:00

Based, i had some problems like these and now i see how unbearable i was, but a girlfriend/boyfriend with a mental disorder must be a whole next level, kudos to this girl.

Title	We have a rare specimen here, someone taking responsibility, how refreshing
Author	biggy_sauce
Upvotes	609
Comments	48
Date	February 24, 2020 5:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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