How many of you in MGTOW have been the "other man"?

MDMantis-Toboggan · 2020-02-14T21:20:49+00:00

I've been both, frankly I'm not a fan of either scenario. It's too messy and too much trouble for my taste.

RokhumanZero · 2020-02-14T21:16:57+00:00

Was cheated on in most relationships. Being the otherman and seeing how easy it was to make that a reality solidified my decision to be mgtow

ihnrva · 2020-02-14T21:56:45+00:00

I've been the other man because she was bored and wanted a fling, or she "recently broke up" and find out later that she was in a supposedly committed relationship. My last exgf kept two relationships at once, me and her now-husband for a year.

All women cheat, the smart ones just haven't gotten caught yet. Any man getting married now is a damn fool.

Fuxk1n · 2020-02-14T21:15:00+00:00

Many times and I laughed about it, thought it was funny, I was evil then. Now I am a bit more mature and TRY to have some sort of morals.

Bombinic · 2020-02-14T21:22:10+00:00

Not proud about it.

2020-02-14T21:44:15+00:00

You'd think it's "ironic" how the easiest pickings always seem to be the ones in commited relationships. It's not. It's a freaking law of nature - the law of "I'm bored".

Prototype_Grendel · 2020-02-14T21:34:32+00:00

I lost my virginity to a girl who had "broken up" with her bf. Learned years later, while fucking one of her best friends that she hadn't even told them about it, and she definitely wasn't on a break.

She married the guy last summer. Poor dude. Tall, intelligent, good looking. Married a cheating walrus. (she wasn't fat when she was 17 tho, glad i got in before the food)

aniani04 · 2020-02-14T22:03:55+00:00

There was this girl that I used to know, we were doing fine... One day, out of the blue, she gets married, and I moved on rather quickly, she didn't mean much to me. After 3 years, she added me again, video called me, we were talking, I see she has 2 kids, and was talking about how the husband was "abusive" Yadayadayada... I didn't fall for her shit, finished the talk, blocked her later.
I would never fuck somebody's girl/fiancé/wife, as much it is the bitch to blame and not the guy, but I think we should raise our standards since women want to be whores, men should cherish the brother code.
If it happened you fucked her and didn't know she was with someone else, the very least you can do is let the other dude know, show him that he is with a whore... If he wants to be a cuck and keep her, then it's his problem.

2020-02-14T23:00:47+00:00

I dodged that bullet numerous times, recently shared a story on here on how i was nearly drawn in by an overly cute girl at a bar until her boyfriend showed up. Another time was at a music festival, they were selling trinkets, one of which were plastic flowers. This girl put one in my jacket out of nowhere and acted all flirtatious. That went on until her boyfriend appeared behind her, she went to that festival with the idiot only for him to be nearly cheated on. Ive got numerous examples of this crap since i was always frequenting bars, music festivals and concerts. Such places are gathering spots for edgy thots who usually end up cheating on their simpy boyfriend one way or another. I often went alone so i was an easy target.

TigPlaze · 2020-02-14T22:15:07+00:00

Only once. Stupid psycho bitch I was dating one summer had a boyfriend back home and she didn't tell me.

U-94 · 2020-02-14T23:44:38+00:00

I love it. Girls love it. It's more fun for them.

This is also why an open relationship doesn't work because the girl doesn't have the thrill of cheating. Sex is easy and the same for women. To make it exciting they need a whole storyline or frivolity to make it worthwhile. Like a porn addicts who can't get aroused by regular shit anymore.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-02-15T00:15:52+00:00

IDK. I wasn't either of them. I was "the very cute guy, but...."

DavidLoPan13 · 2020-02-14T21:18:52+00:00

I’ve been the other man. That shit bums me out too. Just another reminder to not ever get to involved with women.

2020-02-14T21:20:14+00:00

I used to push girls into other guys arms by being too nice, so they'd put me on the marry latter list and have sex with the other guy. I used to think of myself as some sort of aphrodisiac that made women attracted to other men.

American__Jedi · 2020-02-14T22:28:36+00:00

Me in my college days. Married woman would come over just for sex and leave. Can't deny it was great but I wanted a "real" relationship at the time and broke it off. Little did I know....

theoracleofosiris · 2020-02-14T23:14:45+00:00

I never let myself be the other man and have never been as much as I am aware of.

DangZagnut · 2020-02-14T23:34:52+00:00

Several times.

Bitcuestions · 2020-02-15T00:31:50+00:00

Heres my story:

https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/f40eyh/im_wishing_happy_valentines_to_my_old_bitch_and/

How she did it ?

refused to talk about anything sexual on the phone and implied that the "meeting" will be short and nothing will occur (she was trying to cover her bases in case I expose the message- Unfortunately for her I was audio recording the whole thing even the fucking)
Checked her phone multiple times to text back quickly to her boyfriend to cause no suspicion.
Is still with said boyfriend after 4-5 months
Im not blocked on her phone and I can do it again If i wanted too however I was told to only use a certain app etc and she even got mad once and said she was almost caught but thankfully she deleted the message before he saw it. At this point my jaw was beginning to drop because I didn't think this world is this fucking nasty. Is different hearing about this from music and movies and actually experiencing being this "other man"
Told new bf and family I was crazy but yet she met up with me and we fucked (lied to everyone)

whole bunch of other things i don't want to even think of

Boat loads of other whores also. One was even talking about how she bought lingerie for her boyfriend but he doesn't last long and he was boring. lol

IceyBear988 · 2020-02-15T02:16:31+00:00

Both side of fences. Don't like it, in fact a girl currently using me as a scapegoat to piss off his ex-boyfriend, I just hope that dumb ass blue pill dude won't touch me physically, no homo. Being friends with a girl will automatically end up as the otherguy if you are average looking enough, they will use the otherguys surrounding them as body armor for all occasions, out of nowhere they will tell you "First, I gotta say I'm sorry because i just used you to piss off my ex-boyfriend, telling him you're my new boyfriend". This girl is a ex-colleague of mine, she came looking after me when I left the company. I guess by now if you have suckerburger's fagbook, chances of the girls in your friend's list have used you as scapegoat for their relationship issues is quite often.

I just got out of a decade of relationship and definitely not going back into relationship, a decade showed me what can a thousand years of Marriage Reich do to a man.

Fuck that shit. MGTOW is NEITHER of the sides, which is the true side of life.

me-dgaf · 2020-02-15T02:50:06+00:00

Several times. Many when DGAF. Others when the chick just concealed the fact.

Either way, it's usually more hassle than it's worth.

GrandYam_HomeRun · 2020-02-15T03:25:37+00:00

Once and never again. I knew it was foolish but did it anyways. On the plus side, it turned redpill theories into cold hard facts backed by evidence. That made a huge difference in getting me where I am today.

If you're wise, you'll learn from these stories and forego the complete waste of time/energy/money attempting to steal another girl.

Since16 · 2020-02-15T05:13:28+00:00

Been both sadly definitely got my payback x10

lulz3r · 2020-02-15T06:04:23+00:00

I found out after the fact. I felt shitty, I was eating food from his fridge when she told me.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2020-02-15T07:14:18+00:00

I had a 3 some with my girl and an ex of mine a couple months ago, the ex was seeing her simp boyfriend at the time. didnt stop her from deep throating my dick, and other things that im sure her BF will never get. Its sad i know, but what can you do.

lorddoorknocker · 2020-02-15T13:02:54+00:00

When I was young and still in the Marine corps me and three dudes visited this chick who is getting a divorce....

and being in the service a lot of you guys know that there are a lot of divorces that happen...

But long story short I was a young guy we found out the soon-to-be ex-husband was actually still in the house while we were with this chick....

I don't remember a lot from that time but that was 1 and also a Hispanic Marine a 'Playa' - who cry the entire night during my first deployment when his wife was on some reality dating show and took the guy home...

YoungKingFCB · 2020-02-15T15:08:28+00:00

Recently, that's been me. She dumped her guy of two years, even after his father died in a hospital bed, and she talked me into fucking her. I'm the first guy, according to her, to make her cum and squirt and she's messed up my sheets while her legs shake several times. At the moment, she's mad at me for not giving her anything on Valentine's day but I need my sleep on my days off.

ShowMeWarFace · 2020-02-15T16:14:15+00:00

Yeah, a few times. Always found out after the fact. Sent them packing each time. These are the kinds of memories that make monk so easy.

Title	How many of you in MGTOW have been the "other man"?
Author	sorrythought
Upvotes	18
Comments	28
Date	February 14, 2020 9:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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