Even when it’s explained to me, I still don’t get it on a basic human level. Get me? Like when we were children, we would just be friends for the most inane shit. Unless it’s just the modern era, idk. With that logic, to be social one has to be in a group? Or at the very least, fierce, charming and honest.

Also, I feel the being social has an economical element. I give, they take and vice versa. Is being social just easier for women just cause they are women?

Sometimes I really want to talk to people and try to build friendships. Really though, I find that it’s either a bunch of arrogant know it alls or people that know a lot but won’t tell you shit. I used to be bad so I know. Idk what I’m trying to say.

It’s like when you are a kid, socialising is a sharing experience. When you’re an adult, it’s guarded and limited. Idk if it’s MGTOW, social anxiety or my mind playing tricks on me. It’s just that as soon as you leave primary school, shit gets real. Unless you got amazing parents, you will fail again and again until you join the ppl or simply give up.

Feel free to share any thoughts =)