Guys today was eye opening for me. I stopped messing around with this girl a few months back and told her i'd rather be friends, I'm trying to focus entirely on myself and my business. She thought this was an L for her or I had disrespected her by doing this.

Honestly, I avoid conversation with her, her numbers even deleted on my phone, she has nothing to offer my growth and development so what's the point? When I speak to her the conversation always ends up with her trying to give me life advice, no arrogance but I know who to go to when I need direction and I'm not exactly keen on following her plan. I normally shut it down. Today she actually commented on it saying any time I get 'sarcastic' it puts a bad taste in the conversation. I couldn't take it anymore and I told her if I need a lecture I'll go to my mentors and I don't need you treating me like I'm your son.

She went off on me, saying I can't handle opinions, i'm like this with everyone, I'm childish, I completely ignored it saying, 'okay', she came back with more, even called me 'sassy queen' lol, then eventually said this conversation is over, I said 'no problem'. She comes back again continuing to call me childish then says goodnight, i say goodnight back. She COMES BACK, saying you know what I'm not even tired and this is your problem not mine. The conversation goes on as normal..

I've seen her end the conversation twice, continue it both times by herself and then continue it as normal now until she's actually fallen asleep. Bare in mind through all of this I refused to argue because she's not even worth that energy.

Going my own way is THE BEST THING I'VE EVER DONE!