Girl who ghosted me for 2 month is back

boltjamison · 2020-01-03T01:06:04+00:00

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Socrunk · 2020-01-03T01:09:06+00:00

Whoever she stopped talking to you for, dumped her. She's coming back to get some attention to help her damaged ego. You have two options: Option 1 - cut her off Option 2 - keep her around for what she can offer (sex, her friends, employee discounts, etc.) but give her zero effort.

mimiczx · 2020-01-03T01:21:20+00:00

Leave her on "seen" don't even respond.

Krazyrobus · 2020-01-03T02:05:31+00:00

Ghost her, no response. Block her.

bamabeatsny · 2020-01-03T01:26:47+00:00

Ignore her. She has zero respect for you, and she'll do the same again. You're a resource for her. Period.

kurifin · 2020-01-03T01:04:48+00:00

Simple. You’ve already said it. You go your own way.

shadocatssb · 2020-01-03T02:08:47+00:00

She almost certainly got pumped and dumped.

Give her a taste of her own medicine

user_miki · 2020-01-03T01:42:32+00:00

They always come back.

michaelklr · 2020-01-03T01:06:39+00:00

Nah, fuck the shit outta her, do things to her that would make a farm animal blush. It’s what she wants.

tinmonkey147 · 2020-01-03T04:00:54+00:00

She's all stocked up on herpes now just waiting to share that with you

MDMantis-Toboggan · 2020-01-03T01:26:52+00:00

Text her back "So which Chad ghosted you?"

yawp1 · 2020-01-03T01:45:06+00:00

Ha. Was in the exact same situation earlier this year. Don't do what I did. She'll drop you again when she gets bored or something better comes along. Because of course she will.

kriskros18 · 2020-01-03T01:29:26+00:00

Slowly work a “current younger and more educated gf” into the convo and watch her disappear(disclaimer:works in most cases.)

747Latts · 2020-01-03T01:53:32+00:00

Don’t respond . I made this mistake before

2020-01-03T02:21:19+00:00

Space Ghost

Coast to Coast

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2020-01-03T01:11:53+00:00

Leave it be. Doing great thanks. Wish you well by bye now

JMD173 · 2020-01-03T02:14:25+00:00

BLOCK. GHOST. IGNORE. It's not the easy path, but it's the best path you can take. Your silence will tell her enough about how you value yourself, and she will actually value you more than if you respond or keep responding, especially of she said some shit like that an tries coming back. Your just a rebound for her, don't give her ANY attention.

bubblesmart · 2020-01-03T06:24:38+00:00

If you answer her, she will ignore you again. If you talk to her again that would mean you're weak and she KNOWS that. She sees you as a weak guy and expects you to act like a weak person by talking to her again. Don't be mad at her, just IGNORE her.

IM_0228 · 2020-01-03T01:27:11+00:00

Just say "DTF or GTFO pick one".

2020-01-03T01:33:24+00:00

Keep doing what you've been doing. Plenty of fish in the sea.

ggggggggee · 2020-01-03T03:47:47+00:00

Don't respond. It's a "heat check". She's still tryna see if she still has it with you. She most likely doesn't give two shots about you bro. She wants validation. Continue the ghosting.

veganhitler · 2020-01-03T07:12:35+00:00

That's normal. They always do that. Sheilds up.

silly_birb · 2020-01-03T09:30:19+00:00

You can use those kind of girls to test a few of bad behaviors that fuckboys use to make their pussy tingle.

Like for example canceling a date 10 min before the date.

Astral-Projector · 2020-01-03T10:42:51+00:00

Ah, a real classic. Chad and Tyrone has been choking, pissing, cuming and are now done with her. Guess she decided it's your turn again.

Frankh076 · 2020-01-03T12:17:57+00:00

She’s an attention seeker whore, just ghost her ass. Block her number and don’t waste your time. No one needs bullshit in their life

2020-01-03T12:24:49+00:00

Tell her in a neutral voice that you don't want to have anthing to do with her in private.That'll keep her permanently away. If you take her back it will repeat. It's a game women play. Just to make sure they can burn themselves in your brain so they can say "all my exes regret that I left them ... blabla" . She gives a fuck about you. Don't believe in her excuses or apologies. It's a test that You need to fail. I had this sort of crap in my last marriage some years back. Multiple times. Until I divorced her. I should not have let it happen the first time. Don't be like me.

r0t1337 · 2020-01-03T13:23:39+00:00

she got pump dumped. if you wanna be a dick ask her if she got pump dumped and if she says yeah then be like damn..followed by a block or just ignore her/block her..its not worth the trouble..she either had some other guy or is one of those girls with a constant on/off relationship with same guy over n over, in either scenario shes toxic af

i mean if you wanna hit it you can i guess but from experience 100% not worth it especially if you was actually into her like you say

I was into this chick who had an on/off thing with a guy and everytime he left which was like every 2-3 months she'd hit me up..went on for like 2 years because he was never gone more than a week or two even ruined a relationship over her cuz i thought i wanted it so bad..eventually he was gone long enough to actually hit it and then i didn't even want it and ofc he found out and wanted to fight and all that other dumb shit..was my early 20s before i wised up. Its all a mental thing..baby gravy or w/e you wanna call it..lust/desire..once you get it will prob feel different about her cause it won't be the holy honeypot like you thought, just another flesh sleeve..one of millions. Save yourself the trouble man

2020-01-03T13:53:15+00:00

If you were ghosted, that means she's dead. If she has contacted you, that means she has come back from the dead. Never hook up with a zombie. It will not end well.

It just won't.

sootlord · 2020-01-03T16:20:25+00:00

Bro your emotional health is just as important as your physical health. Because guess what, garunteed you will get wrapped in your emotions again and she will pull the same stunt. It ain't worth the hassle for the gash. Ignore the message.

Buy a fleshlight and get that post nut clarity.

Sekhayet · 2020-01-03T16:48:36+00:00

Ignore. Obviously. Why the fuck is this even a question?

Aoimiruki · 2020-01-03T04:55:53+00:00

You can have fun with her just respond shitty bland messages and watch her get wet

ZoloftSanta · 2020-01-03T05:47:06+00:00

She tried to monkey branch, that failed. Now she is back to you.

nickcerentini · 2020-01-03T09:05:16+00:00

If you had feellings about her, ghost her, dont even reply, and do it a way she can tells that you are indifferent (hurts most), and go your own way. But if you ok, let her nearby for sex and other self-benefits. not for long, then kick er

PimpinAce175 · 2020-01-03T09:43:13+00:00

Block her don’t be a simp, she was fucking other dudes

zennacko · 2020-01-03T09:57:24+00:00

Block, move on.

Scagnetty · 2020-01-03T13:48:01+00:00

Don't be a consolation prize.

Carpazza02 · 2020-01-03T14:36:17+00:00

Gotta ghost, I too am expecting this situation to arise from my momentary mgtow lapse. I will not validate her and put the pussy on the pedestal, stay strong and focus on yourself. You don't want to end up on the plantation

VetteVet83 · 2020-01-03T18:08:25+00:00

She went after somebody she presumed to be a better option and he rejected her. Do not be her second or third or 15th choice.

2020-01-03T18:22:10+00:00

Ignore and/or block.

cireorelum1 · 2020-01-04T11:54:39+00:00

Hot and cold games = seeing other dudes < block her

Bokulence · 2020-01-03T05:30:40+00:00

Tell her to leave you alone.

Title	Girl who ghosted me for 2 month is back
Author	Mobcy
Upvotes	57
Comments	63
Date	January 3, 2020 1:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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