TL;DR My co-worker tries to make her boyfriend forget about her mistakes. I fail to stay cool.

I work in fitness club for woman with plurality of young, hot receptionist/member consultant. Rest of us are muscular kinda alpha guys. Daily, I hear girl's moaning about beta boyfriends, attention requests etc.

One of them (Let's call her Lisa) has crisis in her relationship. Today, she ask me out to talk. We go to social zone in club. First, she's talking how great is her boyfriend, how great it WAS with him. Then, with wet eyes Lisa comments present and things start to get more specific.

First, she admits that she blowed him off, she didnt go to his completion ceremony. Two days before, she decided to go party with her friends in home town. She just wanted to have fun. They argued and did not talk for week. Next, she was at friend's party and kissed a guy. Nothing serious (YEAH, SURE) she said. Lisa and her boyfriend get back together and moved together to flat. He checked her cellphone and found conversation with kissed guy (She's okay with checking her facebook/cellphone). Lisa is sorry, begged him, sweared she love him etc. They start to look flat for her.

At beginning, he ignored her regularly, then Lisa ignored him and now admits that it confused her.

Now best part: She ask me how to talk with him to make him forget about her past. Poker face - TRP TRUTHS TRAINTM pass through my head. I cheered her and started giving my advice (first mistake?) then i disclosed some of truths (second mistake?). She picked up cellphone and started to type some bullshit to boyfriend like I love you, I dont want to lose you, I know you cant forget but try to... etc. Her hamster tries his best. My psychopath soul starts inner laughter and I just left her to carry on reading book. One hour later we started chat and i told her that she's attractive to me, so she should have that in mind considering my advices about leaving him. Job duties interrupted talk and we had no opportunity to continue.

Lessons learned:

1. She makes her best to change past - unsuccessfully.

2. There is no sense in pointing out truth to woman. Cheer her up.

3. Make others espect your privacy. Demand it.

4. Always listen, give advice only if someone asks you.

5. Woman see nothing wrong in doing drama in public.

6. She's not yours, it's only your turn.

EDIT: Added "We go to social zone in club."