Women are NOT your friends

Bpinchosrep · 2019-12-09T14:25:05+00:00

I just got done trying to convince a blue piller of this. He didn’t want to listen.

ncarolina66 · 2019-12-09T14:44:27+00:00

The best part is that the woman doesn't want you to solve her problem, she just wants to drone on and on, hour after hour telling you about it. Fuck that shit.

ImstarIordman · 2019-12-09T15:05:06+00:00

It's called being an emotional tampon. Never never never listen to a women bitch about a dude that's dicking her down if your not also dicking her down. Almost every woman I have ever talked to "as a friend" wanted to cry about a dude. I find this common in fuck buddy's that have a bf or recent ex. Dont make a women fill better about getting dick from someone else.

Wolverine190 · 2019-12-09T14:23:27+00:00

Welcome to clown world

2019-12-09T15:56:17+00:00

I've come here after another bad experience trying to be a friend with a woman and realizing women are not capable of being friends with a man.

It sounds like you learned an important lesson -- men and women were never really meant to be platonic friends. When a woman derives no benefit from interacting with a man, then no interaction takes place.

2019-12-09T15:16:21+00:00

They are emotional vampires.

Grant1412 · 2019-12-09T18:07:03+00:00

My advice is: don't for 1 second think that any woman has your back.

Women are incapable of being actual friends. Because the moment you actually need them, they want to see you burn. A man in any sort of need is something they detest more than anything else. A woman trying to be your friend is a woman trying to use you.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-12-09T17:05:20+00:00

I think it depends on your definition of friends. In America we have a pretty particular definition of it being someone you can do all of your casual things with but that isn't the case elsewhere. Put it this way, you can have a bond with a child even if they aren't yours, right? They may not be your son, but calling them your 'friend' may be weird too. Same goes for someone significantly older. You may feel more comfortable using the term 'friend', but it isn't quite the same thing as being friends with someone your own age. And then there are animals, which may not be your actual pet but that you have some sort of relationship with through someone else. Co-workers may not be friends either, but you do like them.

The point is that women are like this. To think of them as friends the same way you do your male friends is a mistake. But if you can understand that when you think of a woman as your 'friend' that it is a particular relationship like that of a much older person, younger person, an animal, a co-worker, or some other particular dynamic that is also 'friendly', that is fine. You just need to recognize that these things are wildly different, and the dynamic isn't based on the same type of equality that what we think of friendship is based off of.

That is the problem though, people want to act like its the same thing as being friends with a guy despite the power dynamic being skewed way towards the woman.

EL10RUB · 2019-12-09T17:31:29+00:00

Why would you be friends with a woman ? Seriously, WTF do you think she is going to bring to a friendship ? Theyre not even friends to their female friends. Their interactions with their friends are for (principally) validation (fake) or when they do play the shoulder to cry on theyre only doing it as a power trip to their ego.

Fuck them, they are of no value or use at all of any kind except for their vagina. Nothing more needs saying.

when_its_too_late · 2019-12-09T17:22:38+00:00

Been in the same spot. It's always the opposite of what you want JUST BECAUSE. You want to date them? They use you as "just a friend(tampon)". Want to be just friends, they want to fuck you over somehow. It's bizzare.

TigPlaze · 2019-12-09T21:01:41+00:00

I do have a female friend who is actually a real friend. She's married and not after me for my resources. We just have similar wacky senses of humor and genuinely care about each other. It's unusual. There are very few women I would trust like this.

markus_brutus · 2019-12-09T18:43:21+00:00

I’ve had a few too many of these that it became a pattern. What I also noticed is that chat apps allow this behavior, so I stopped using any app for lengthy discussions. Yes. No. Ha ha. Meet me at X.

Raygar21 · 2019-12-09T19:28:18+00:00

I've had a couple good female friends back in college, and then we lost touch as I was moving around a lot. After that it's just been like walking through land mines. Sure there might be a few that could make ok friends, but is it worth taking a chance getting your life blown up?

And there's a reason therapists charge so much to listen to your shit. It's boring, annoying and sometimes downright traumatizing to listen to. Why would anyone want to do that for free???

2019-12-10T06:15:44+00:00

Women get the aforementioned privileges after they service my manhood.

throwayay292919 · 2019-12-09T22:51:17+00:00

Woman passing through--i have 4 friends that are guys. We are all in a big friend group. Women and men CAN be friends. And yes, everyone is consenting, no, we aren't using each other for sex, and yes, they do like having me around. Please don't generalize. :)

2019-12-09T23:18:26+00:00

Yeah.

A female friend of mine wanted to be "platonic" I told her I wasn't interested in that because I'm 1. not monogamous & 2. Our natural sexual energy and attraction would get in the way of our "faking a friendship" attempt.

Especially because we've hooked up before and have history lol smh.

She said she was understanding. But long story short. We speak wayyyy less after I was honest about my intentions..

Easier to drop a plate and move on to your other options, than to dwell and flimsy communication tacts lol.

AnonDeity · 2019-12-10T00:48:59+00:00

just block her

BetterHimThanMe · 2019-12-10T00:56:29+00:00

Tell Muhammad, Achmed and Osama she loves pork and hates islam.

Sit back and enjoy the show.

applepiebreadpudding · 2019-12-10T01:15:06+00:00

Has anybody else had this experience?

no

I had one female friend in high school but it's just because she knew i wasnt interested in her sexually and she had no boyfriends either

Too bad the friendship didnt go on but i cant say i miss her. I still have love and respect for her though.

It's this thing. Women you can fuck cant be interesting and only the unfuckables develop an interesting mind.

After that I got more active sexually so having a friendship with a neutral tomboy girl wasnt so appealing anymore anyway.

I don't believe in male-female friendship. One of them always would love to fuck/get fucked by the other one.

She was very nice though.

Come to think of it I had another friend much later but we ended up fucking, confirming my opinion about male-female friendships. And this of course ruined our friendship.

The thing is with the first one I eventually got to the point where I was desperately looking for a fuck so I put the challenge before her: you either are sexy or you're out. She could not. I was not able to relate sexually to a girl less sex-savvy than I. I'm not sure I have changed in this regard even with the richer experience i got since then.

To me girls/women connect me to the ground, to the earth. If they don't, they're not female in my book. I don't need a girl to connect to spirit or mind, TYVM. Except as a friend, but this never lasts. It gets sexual eventually.

2019-12-10T02:17:18+00:00

This is a good rule of thumb to live by, but I think there are exceptions to it. Granted, they are rare, and women that are actually worth befriending probably fall within the <1% of the female population. One of my best friends is a female and she let me live with her for about 2 years rent free when I got laid off. She didn't expect money, sex, chores, or anything from me. Just fed me, housed me, and took care of me. I had to literally force her to take some money as repayment when I finally got back on my feet. She might be one of those mythical unicorns that the legends have spoke of.

Sumfuc · 2019-12-10T03:42:00+00:00

Does she want to play HALO with me on a long weekend on a Friday at 1AM? No? Fuck outahere.

Can she help me move out a old couch for the new one? No? Fuck outahere.

Wanna go to the range on Saturday afternoon ? Bring your guns, I bring mine? Got no guns? Fuck outtahere.

Whiskey & cigars after going to steakhouse? No? Fuckouthere.

GWAR is playing next week wanna go? No?....

RoboMandrake · 2019-12-10T05:31:56+00:00

When mine starts spouting like this (which does happen occasionally), shortly after the second repetition starts I tell her to take this to one of her girlfriends to loop around endlessly about the same thing over and over because this sort of activity appears to be something that females actually enjoy doing. I just tell her outright, not going to listen to this, take it somewhere else, heard you the first time and you've already got my opinion on it - and that ain't gonna to change upon the second, third, fourth, or four-hundreth repetition.

WanderlustYouth · 2019-12-10T06:50:02+00:00

Friendships (like all relations) should be give and take, and yet women only really seem to know how to take, doesn't seem like the type of person i'd want to be friends with.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2019-12-10T06:53:08+00:00

this just in...the sky is blue!

Mikedoroo · 2019-12-10T10:40:43+00:00

Women are toys

seefromabove · 2019-12-10T13:05:21+00:00

Well,

I am not a therapist, so don't come to me with your problems. I am not an emotional tampon, so don't gush about your feelings to me.

I'm following a couple of all-girls chats on some messengers. That's how they establish friendship and maintain relationships. They talk to each other about each other's problems . So they are actually coming to you as if you're their GIRLfriend.

another fake female friend last night who accused me of being insensitive because I wouldn't let her come to me complaining about her life.

That's what they do among themselves. They complain about something . What's most interesting, is that others support the complaining one unquestioningly. There is praise, there is bad mouthing of the offender (teacher, boyfriend, husband, etc.) . But there is never constructive criticism. I have not seen something like, " yes, but you made this mistake over here and this is how to correct it".

Another thing that a woman at work told me. I asked, " why do you just talk about dieting and losing weight without actually doing something about it?" Seemed unreasonable to me. You know what she answered? "It gives us a safe topic to discuss without necessarily going into something more sensitive and confidential. Kind of like talking about the weather". There you go. Now it looks much more reasonable.

It is all purely symptomatic psychotherapy. They talk about their problem but often they don't really look for a solution.

So, so far it looks pretty logical. They try to talk to you as if you're their girlfriend.

come to me in your time of need if I like you, but I don't let women abuse that privilege. Not the women I want to fuck and not the women I don't.

If you look at the statistics from telephone companies, you will see that the length of conversations between women is way way longer than among men. They give each other their time. You don't want to give you their time. Again, I have absolutely no clue why you don't want to act like their girlfriend ;)

thelookoutbelow · 2019-12-10T21:21:54+00:00

They're not even friends to each other. They only cooperate on a joint strategy to defraud men and steal from children, beginning with the men and children closest to them.

Their own husbands and children are their biggest victims

ToleranceIsYourDoom · 2020-01-12T22:14:30+00:00

I had female managers and they always were terrible leaders. Back stabbing, wanted you to do the brunt of the work. I had one bad mfer for a boss and shes a woman. Shes 65 looks young 50's late 40's and is crazy good looking for her age. She is a rare exception. She fought for me and my job while 3 sjw cunt managers singled me out trying to get mr fired. So I gotta give her props, there are good women. However dont gamble on it lol

Shiningcrow · 2019-12-09T21:35:17+00:00

This was refreshing to read. Yeah, I can’t have female friends. I only talk to girls I find attractive unless it’s obligatory via work etc. but then I realize she usually just wants to vent to me and talk about her bf(s) so I bail.

Title	Women are NOT your friends
Author	Trust_No_Bitches
Upvotes	137
Comments	56
Date	December 9, 2019 2:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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