TL;DR: tons of pullups, good results at club

My past: My(21) girl(19) and I broke up on Halloween. It's been rough having to disable my desire for comfort and affection from her because of how bad my oneitis had become. She lost attraction to me because I was acting like a beta with no ambition and this was a huge wake up call for me.

Since Halloween I have been doing pullups every day and changed my diet up completely. Gym is a regular part of my routine along with school goals and my own youtube channel. I listen to ebooks about success and have been meditating every day. I feel alive.

Last night at the club: I went with a friend (female) and two of her guy friends to see Datsik, one of my favorite dubstep artists. On the way there we had issues about finding parking. I was driving so instead of panicking and asking where to park, I chose a close parking garage and paid no attention to the guys bickering in the back. Later, my friend (call her J) approaches me rubbing my back saying she was glad I handled it well while the other two guys were arguing. She continued to feel up my back all night...(thanks pull up bar)

We split up for different lines (21+ 18+). Ive had some shots and am feeling great. My shirt fits better than ever, and my back has grown substantially. In line, I chat up these two filipino girls who I wasn't interested in anything except for conversation. Got one of their numbers because his cousin is a tattoo artist and can hook it up. Eventually they went up ahead to the front of the line to meet with their friends and they brought me with them while the group i came with was still in line.

Inside....Strangers everywhere....I felt like I was gonna panic, but then the filipino girl grabs my arm and I feel at ease. I actually for once feel confident, not because she was next to me, but because she was feeling me up. I felt sexy, and as weird as that sounds, it boosted my confidence 10 fold. We head to the dance floor and begin grooving. I get goofy and funky when I dance but I must be doing something right because numerous girls were showing up next to me. The night is still young and I am no rush to pursue anything....just to have fun.

I headed upstairs and run into J, shes crying and alone because the guys she brought were still in line. She gives me a huge hug and once again feels up my back. At this point, im tipsy and feeling like a boss.

"Follow me" I say to her. I take her by the hand to the dance floor upstairs (deep house vibe, my specialty) and I start dancing with her. I took her by the hand and twirled her, but avoided any type of grinding. It was face to face dancing, but I locked eyes with her the entire time and she kept trying to get closer to touch me while I would pull away.

Another blonde came up to me, and asked me if me and J were together. I said, "no way haha" to which J seemed hurt....

I regretted it right away but then the other girl joined us dancing and now I had them both trying to get closer.

The dance room became packed and this group of girls I hadn't seen since high school approach me. We exchanged hugs and hellos but one specific girl (A) I used to have a fling with straight up grabbed my ass (squats). She muttered, "you changed" and from the smell of her breath I could tell she was drunk.

J left at this point, while I continued to do my own thing. Dancing. Occasionally I would lock eyes with a girl and take a few steps towards her, and she would be drawn to me. Then, I would pull back and dance solo.

Through out the night I felt the best I ever had in years. It seemed girls everywhere were noticing me either because of my body, or the attention I was receiving from other girls.

No, I didnt hook up with anyone. A lot of opportunities but I still froze because a part of me hopes my ex and I will get back together and I know if I hook up with someone else it would ruin that chance.

Im still learning to adopt this abundance mentality, but after last night, I see what its all about now.

If you're reading this, do some fuckin pullups.

EDIT: Confidence comes from within, and once you see yourself improving (no matter how small), you will only want to keep going. Something as minimal as pullups can start you on the right path. Regardless of what you do, work on yourself any chance you get.

TL;DR: tons of pullups, good results at club