My girlfriend broke up with me for a guy she knew for a day...

krugerand9 · 2019-09-30T16:55:30+00:00

I've accepted now that any relationship nowadays that you get into with a woman (female for that number guy..) has an expiry date. Once they lose the tingles for you, you're best to throw that relationship in the trashcan.

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2019-09-30T17:56:08+00:00

If you noticed, most of the time a girl/woman breaks up with her boyfriend, it usually involves her friends "approving" of another guy more - similar to how they'd rate a purse, the woman will want to have the purse that her friends most like.

SilenceIsGolden321 · 2019-09-30T16:05:40+00:00

" you know he left because he is way more mature and way smarter then you"

Jfl they sure do know how to add more fuel to the fire

electricbridge · 2019-09-30T16:15:47+00:00

Jeez that was hard on the feels to read

[deleted] · 2019-09-30T20:44:20+00:00

I recently met a chick & went on 3 cheap dates with her.

I told her a story about how I don't trust women, because I have older sisters, and one of them is particularly violent and abusive. This sister is a compulsive liar, and has been her entire life. She'll say anything necessary to influence/manipulate people so that they do what she wants to be done. I cut off contact with this particular sister.

Anyways, I told the chick about my sister, and she said everyone is an individual. And that we shouldn't allow one person to influence how we see or trust other people.

In fact, this chick said "I like to start at 100% trust with people." Hahahaha. Yeah fucking right!

NEVER trust women. They don't see men as people, they see men as tools.

Women are predators. Remember that. No matter how attractive, dainty, innocent they seem-- inside, they're trying to find the best way to extract the most resources out of you.

I actually stopped dating the chick because I noticed that she expects me to entertain her and take her out. She hasn't offered to take me out at her expense (i.e. her paying for the date). So, I simply just stopped talking to her. It was pretty funny to me though that she attempted to imply I should trust her 100% (and people in general), even though I barely know her.

TaiYongMedical · 2019-09-30T17:02:50+00:00

Classic "light switch effect" in action right here. Don't say we didn't warn you.

TheObelisk · 2019-09-30T16:40:45+00:00

The new quick-fire monkey branch. Now with whiplash protection.

ohishitmypantsagain · 2019-09-30T16:47:03+00:00

Poor guy. Blessing in disguise though.

asspop1 · 2019-09-30T16:56:46+00:00

holy shit this is fucked man! lucky for him the sancho left or else the sancho would have gotten a beating. LOL Its a blessing though.

MrGordija · 2019-09-30T20:46:54+00:00

Dude I am so sorry this shit went down, You have to be hurting big time. It will get better but it sucks right now.

As an older guy let me tell you something. She did you a favor, At least you did not marry this girl have a few kids and then have her walk out on you leaving you broke and seeing your kids every other weekend.

I would suggest that if she tries to patch this shit up or come to her senses, over the next couple of weeks DO NOT FUCKING GET BACK WITH HER! You deserve a girl who is fucking bat shit crazy about you and this THOT is not it.

The thing is, I bet money that she will be back, 6 months or a few years from now, she will contact you when she is done riding the cock carousal . This is a window into her true character. Work on yourself, Gym, Eat right the best revenge is being the guy she should have married.

Take care man..... You will get through this

Gamer4life94 · 2019-09-30T16:37:46+00:00

Sounds like my situation 3 years ago had been talking to this girl for two weeks but had been in love with her for y years and she finally was giving me the time of day ah blue pill idiot days but we had a ton in common and I took her out too eat and then didnt hear anything over the weekend and then come that money I get told that shes got a boyfriend and that I better leave her alone because they're already talking about getting married mind you I knew this girl for 12 years and she claimed she had a crush on me and she met this guy online and claimed they were in love after two days then she showed me his pic and I seen why he had abs but I could tell he was starving because he didnt have an once of muscle on him but I spent the next six months thinking i wasn't good enough moping and crying now years later I just recently viewed her profile and shes wondering where the good men are has two kids and weighs 300 and all her friends are saying amats and the blue pulled idiot are stepping up to try to be a dad long story short for a girl the same age as me she hit the wall hard I'm just glad I found mgtow before I accidentally had a kid or got married

MrMagtow · 2019-09-30T17:41:39+00:00

Feelz > Realz

DaBlackHole1 · 2019-09-30T17:42:21+00:00

aLl mEn aRe tHe sAmE

Malbek604 · 2019-09-30T21:32:08+00:00

Not my time for such things anymore but in my day I would have let the rage flow and entered combat. Not for the sake of winning m'lady back but to burn off steam and punish the insolence.

CallMyNameOrWalkOnBy · 2019-10-01T09:32:39+00:00

Something I NEVER understood... in our civilization, whenever there's a situation involving two men and one woman, and there's been some betrayal or heartbreak, THE MEN ARE EXPECTED TO FIGHT, even in situations where the woman is clearly at fault.

Your girlfriend sleeps with another man? You need to hit the other man. Right? WTF? What does that resolve? The girl gets away with it?

My first serious girlfriend was in high school. We dated for my entire senior year, lost our virginities to each other. Loved her. I discovered she was cheating, and I directed my anger at HER. But the other guy didn't understand why I wasn't gunning for HIM. Even her father wondered the same thing. I didn't give a shit about the other guy.

Anyway, I'm reading the post, and it's funny that it quickly becomes a dick-measuring contest between two men, ready to physically attack each other. And what? The girl who threw the hand grenade just sits there, innocently? Fuck that.

DeejayLuke · 2019-09-30T21:31:55+00:00

I know you don't know it now, you're justifiably hurt, but this is THE best thing to ever happen to you. You got rid of an untrustworthy succubus who would've slowly destroyed you over time.

Here's what will happen: The new guy will fuck around on her and she'll call or text you looking for a shoulder to cry on. This is called manipulation, be keen to it because you're gonna see it soon. Women are master manipulators.

Work on YOU, son. Hit the gym, volunteer to walk dogs twice a week, get together with friends, make new ones and make plans with all of them. Learn the guitar, the bass, drums...whatever. Join a bowling league, sign up for a dart team, build models. Whatever. Just do YOU.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-09-30T23:19:48+00:00

Damn kid...crying over some slut. Just know that she's just another shallow vagina, you don't need to waste any more time and effort being sad about it. Cut the bitch off completely and be free. Big arms don't always win you fight. If you've trained in MMA, then you shouldn't have a problem choking out your average meathead.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-09-30T17:16:59+00:00

Some wounds will never fully heal, and this is one of them. Poor bastard.

Amineddit · 2019-09-30T18:42:14+00:00

Man, I understand your feelings. I've through similar stuff. And trust me, now is the time for you to start focusing on what really matters for you. Girls nowadays are easily influenced by movies, friends and all, and they enjoy these kind of drama. Your energy, your creativity and dreams need to be used for things you like.

BoredToDeathx · 2019-09-30T18:53:20+00:00

That happened to me last year, I'm happier than ever. He's her problem now.

[deleted] · 2019-09-30T20:15:57+00:00

He has no idea how lucky he was to have it end like that. Normally she would have drug things out for weeks and months cheating on him secretly.

Helikzhan · 2019-10-01T00:19:34+00:00

Feminism in action.

RoboMandrake · 2019-10-01T04:40:57+00:00

"I don't know how i can know i can trust one ever again..."

Well...you can't. Welcome to the club.

antifeminist3 · 2019-10-01T16:33:48+00:00

To hold hands with him and kiss when you were present is really rubbing it in and spiteful.

MaestroLogical · 2019-10-01T07:26:30+00:00

i just started crying and punching everything i saw

Tough love time. She was right, that other dude is more mature.

She hasn't 'known him for a day'. She's been hearing about him for months, been texting with him for weeks and now discovered they have chemistry enough to hit the eject button. She grabbed the branch weeks ago to test it's stability and then swung out, in public around people because she knew you'd react like an immature asshat.

Translation. You scare her. You bore her. You are self absorbed.

Doesn't matter if it's accurate. Women only care about feels after all. Accept it and move forward. Work on yourself so the next time it happens you react more like the other dude and less like a hormonal teenager.

You aren't going your own way, you're going the way you're allowed by society. The rage is coming from deep within as your actions don't produce the expected result. I can easily envision you as a BP simp, with no backbone, cowering and holding no opinion of your own out of fear of rejection only to explode unpredictably when the rage gets too built up. Not healthy at any stage in life.

You have a lot to learn, stick around and we'll teach you all we can (for as long as we can).

I know what I've said will anger you, it's supposed to. Fact is she was never yours, it wasn't even really your turn, you were just a placeholder for something better. AWALT and all that jazz, but from what you described... You were actually the problem here. We'll help you, if you let us.

Edit: Just realized this is a repost, hopefully the OP sees this thread.

Title	My girlfriend broke up with me for a guy she knew for a day...
Author	MrGordija
Upvotes	65
Comments	35
Date	September 30, 2019 3:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dbdlqy/my_girlfriend_broke_up_with_me_for_a_guy_she_knew/
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