My grandmother died and I had to keep to myself for a few days while I coped with my pain. A girl I just met texted me and this is the first thing she says to me....

Deviously-Dirge · 2019-02-05T03:21:33+00:00

Dude, get out now while it's early. She has crazy and controlling written all over her.

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-02-05T03:25:01+00:00

If her need for attention supercedes your grieving process, you should get out. Calling you immature is gaslighting.

mangoround · 2019-02-05T04:20:36+00:00

you're a total stranger to me but I'm actually sorry for your loss and hope your grieving process doesn't hurt you too much bro

[deleted] · 2019-02-05T03:44:08+00:00

Tell her to go fuck herself, block her number and mourn for your grandmother with the ones you love, not this solipsistic slut

MrMannheim · 2019-02-05T07:40:54+00:00

Protip:

She doesn't care about you.

tdh792 · 2019-02-05T04:06:14+00:00

Time to ghost her forever.

mangoround · 2019-02-05T04:00:27+00:00

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slowgrumble · 2019-02-05T03:19:04+00:00

Who is she to tell you what to do or what not to do? She has to adjust herself according to you and not the other way around.

PabloAsscrowbar · 2019-02-05T06:43:49+00:00

Ghost and block. You deserve better than to be insulted by a controlling psycho.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-02-05T03:26:39+00:00

Oh, absolutely do what she says, because paying attention to her is more important than someone dying. /s

[deleted] · 2019-02-05T04:01:01+00:00

You have to make her the center of your world, and notify her immediately when you're having a moment to yourself. Seriously, her attitude seems shifty, like she has orbiters sending her DM's every second of they day. She could replace you quick. She's not yours! Its just your turn!

ScottyHoliday · 2019-02-05T07:54:26+00:00

Yes, but you're still going to wine and dine this bitch in hopes of getting the panties off her, right? I don't mean to sound cold, I'm sorry for your loss. But fuck this bitch. What she did ranks high up on the disrespect list. I'd tell the bitch to fuck off, and make sure it was hurtful, she earned it.

Gibits · 2019-02-05T06:21:54+00:00

You’re grandmother dying is very immature af. Grow up and make sure no one dies. Is that too much to ask?

low_burning · 2019-02-05T11:23:19+00:00

Telling the death of your grandmother as "shit" is something you should not over look for . Its a straight sign that she did not care when you are going through tough times , its not about emotionally but any other circumstances , as she says that " tell me when you are going through shit " and she will not disturb you? wtf ? this is an indicator that in tough times she is not going to stand with you as she wants you to go through shit first and then come to her. This is not good.

Hereddit3 · 2019-02-05T07:40:59+00:00

I’m not following this. I get it, you guys just met but she DIDNT KNOW why you ghosted so those who are saying she’s putting her needs over the importance of his time to grieve are really reaching for their MGTOW moment. She didn’t know and after she discovered WHY he ghosted, she reassured him that she would support him if in the future he needs it . WTF is wrong with that??

[deleted] · 2019-02-05T07:55:55+00:00

What a fucking cunt.

bobik314 · 2019-02-05T10:20:57+00:00

Is it a ghetto language?

jdutches13 · 2019-02-05T09:14:58+00:00

Lol I hate to judge but she's saying you're immature as fuck??

Hahahaha I can tell she's a ticking time bomb waiting to explode just by the grammar she uses texting you.....and if anything she's the one that needs to grow up

If women only paid attention to the things they say

Shitlordlogic222 · 2019-02-05T11:19:13+00:00

What the fuck. How rude. I wouldn’t talk to this person anymore, I’m serious. Red flag.

schemadrome · 2019-02-05T11:40:38+00:00

ripcord now

race_car · 2019-02-05T12:15:05+00:00

lol the relationship isnt "going somewhere" yet but she's already trying to dictate terms.

hard next this one.

SavvyMillennial · 2019-02-05T13:41:01+00:00

im the master of ignoring people lol. I prob should never get in a relationship.

DiscombobulatedSalt2 · 2019-02-05T09:04:40+00:00

Well, I will give her a credit, because I agree that ghosting is immature and disrespectful as fuck. Be the fucking adult.

The line between too little and too much attention is personal preference, luck and circumstances, depends what happened before, how much time passes, etc.

Toshiba1point0 · 2019-02-05T14:00:18+00:00

What happened to “ I’ll be here if you need anything, take care and call me when you can”

Dank_Meems · 2019-02-05T15:23:42+00:00

she's a worthless cunt. Tell her this.... Then move on.

badaboomxx · 2019-02-05T15:28:24+00:00

"ignoring me is immature af" seems like this thot lacks compassion.

McCoonaz · 2019-02-05T16:13:04+00:00

What a cunt!

BludgeonVIII · 2019-02-05T16:20:11+00:00

She probably would have shamed you if you told her too.

You can't win.

chadsvasc · 2019-02-05T16:41:47+00:00

Just hit and quit

soar-above · 2019-02-05T17:19:10+00:00

She curses like a sailor. Her language is crude and her thinking is the same.

Avoid such people in the future. I have seen a very clear link between girl swearing routinely and her negative character traits. At least 10 cases.

JJ-Manners · 2019-02-05T03:53:37+00:00

Gotta admit man, you got a decent one. Most ladies would have been shrieking and screaming like a train drove into their house

I know supporting the ladies aren’t always welcome here and I am a solid convert to MGTOW, but this girl is cool

If you are just looking for chill this one seems good. I don’t believe in vilifying every single lady and some of them are ok. Some guys on here are so bitter they hate

I am not looking to pick a fight, Peace to your family. I am here for the same Reasons we all are. But I honestly don’t think this should be a jihad. This should be about men and doing what we want. Going our direction. Enjoying our time.

If she pays her own way, if she will go to hockey, soccer or rugby with me, if she doesn’t encroach on me like NATO to the Russian Bear, if she is a fun human being and (important) she is honest. Then I can see myself being cool with a lady

At least this girl asked the question, then said she is sorry you are going through this, then told you straight up.

I’ve seen much much worse on here brother. Godspeed.

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