How has modern feminism changed how you perceive women?

ikkyu_ · 2017-01-15T20:21:36+00:00

No. "Feminism" is just a faith people invent and cling to due to lack of true self-esteem. It's no coincidence that many "feminists" (and many "men's rights activists," for that matter) are deeply neurotic, self-loathing inferiority complex addicts who spend vast quantities of time on the internet wallowing in their victim identities.

Your friend is just insecure and resentful because of his own issues. This is causing him to invent his own victim narrative. Point him to some self help literature and get out of the way. You can't really help some people until they want to change.

shiggityshoo · 2017-01-15T18:38:26+00:00

I think your post belongs in askTRP.

I could see his train of thought for everything but the last point. Women love attention, and they love men being perverts - they just try and save face most of the time.

Your friend seems to be in a weird, jaded/bitter blue pill type view. He's blaming his lack of confidence on exterior factors, when his problem is that he doesn't have the balls to just go for what he wants. Feminists want to be ravaged by Chad as much as any other female, they just stupidly put other things in the way of that - to their own dismay. Many females have been influenced by feminism, since it pervades our society more than ever, and they've become accustomed to certain things - but it's been discussed at length on this sub just what it is that they want, more likely than not. Your pal should want to fuck women, and he should damn well own it too. He shouldn't be ashamed of a natural desire... Women love the idea of somebody wanting to fuck them, as do men. If you're hitting things off with a girl, and imply (hell, straight up say it) that you're going to take her back to your place, and have your way with her - it's almost guaranteed to succeed.

There's nothing you should say to your friend, aside from him to stop being a bitter faggot and start making moves. His ego is his problem, not "feminist" women. It's only a small minority of women who are actually prone to smack you with a rape charge for saying hello, or drunkenly blundering a kiss. It's like complaining about how you'll never drive a Ferrari because you aren't rich right now - "The system is stacked against me, man!". You won't be able to afford even an old Corolla if you don't put forth an effort to make some cash - know what I'm saying?

exit_sandman · 2017-01-16T10:08:08+00:00

How has modern feminism changed how you perceive women?

Honestly?

Feminist influence (publications/statements/articles written by feminists and/or white knight sympathizers of feminism) has contributed greatly to me developing an idea of women that had little to do with reality.

I assumed women in general...

were at the very least leaning towards feminism, were freedom-seeking and pro women's rights; those who weren't were brainwashed by reactionaries into thinking so.
were as capable as men and would love to be independent and be productive themselves; also they would love to be decisive and proactive (also in romantic matters), and it was just traditional society holding them back through shaming and restricting their options.
were basically just enduring men (especially manly men); and the only way to get into their good graces was by trying to adapt to the "female experience" as good as you can; also that they wanted nice, reliable and respectful guys (who unfortunatley were borderline non-existent because men are jerks by default).
were fundamentally decent and well-natured, non-superficial and had a radar for moral integrity; and were always striving to make the world a better place.

Took me quite a bit of time to figure out none of the above applies. So basically, "modern feminism" hasn't changed how I perceived women, it has basically produced my perception of them and it was reality that changed said perception.

takethedive · 2017-01-15T18:37:57+00:00

Even if all he does want to do is fuck her, he's not immoral for it. It's natural and ordinary to want to do that. He needs to untangle his honest emotions from his idea of virtue.

Marsupian · 2017-01-16T10:45:20+00:00

When his smv is low all higher smv women will think he is a creep. Thats just nature. A high smv women is afraid a lower smv man will find a way to fuck her and she has to use social manipulation (their main tool) to prevent it. Therefor a low smv male will either be invisible, labeled a creep or treated nicely in a social setting (as long as he behaves and stays asexual) so girls can display that they are "nice".

If a low smv male displays sexually aggressive behavior he will only see the worst side of women and it will shape his perspective.

My view of women isnt effected by feminism because feminism doesnt change human nature. Also I put the work in to get my smv high so I get to enjoy the best aspects of female nature which gives me a very positive view on women.

In the case of your friend he uses feminism as an excuse which prevents him from seeing the obvious solution which is high smv and seeing feminism as the hilarious global shit test it is. That said you cant help him so let him complain and lead by example.

mdcrubengonza · 2017-01-16T02:41:10+00:00

It's made me dislike them greatly, but enjoy their vaginas much more.

fistingfisterer · 2017-01-16T03:10:05+00:00

It's made me pump and dump them. Nothing but fuck toys to me. I love sluts.

Suppressive_Fire · 2017-01-16T13:53:12+00:00

Feminism has simply made me consciously aware of how I feel about women. I don't like them.

CallMeHaseo · 2017-01-16T03:25:47+00:00

It made me stop being a simp, helped me wake up and gave me the "sexist" mentality I so desperately needed.

B_L_Sisko · 2017-01-16T19:22:41+00:00

I detest feminism but I don't detest women. In my view, women are victims of feminism.

toniyksi · 2017-01-18T16:43:42+00:00

Modern "feminism" and the so-called third wave feminist, the SJW variety - has made me somewhat cautious when interacting with women. I like women, i don't like the label "feminism". I don't particularly find nose rings and exaggerated hair colors very attractive on anyone, but they do seem to have louder megaphones and incoherent one bit bullet points based on incomplete/false "statistics".

Based on all the cringy videos I've been seeing lately and generally the stuff on social media - i don't think this feminist ideology is doing anyone any good, in fact its more harmful because of its entanglement with politics and all this "victim olympics" that seems to be going on.

Generally, i try to judge people on specific ideas, individually, but its hard because a lot of things are attached to labels. I'm trying to figure all these things out.

goldnhorde · 2017-01-18T19:26:03+00:00

Strangely, feminism has made me feel like women are .... on the whole ... not equal to men.

I mean the whole point was to bring about some sort of equality, and I do believe in a certain level of equality - equal value/different assets.

but what women have done with the 3rd wave feminism .... it all seems like some way to stop the contest and claim defeat on their part. like they are saying "in conclusion, we just plain can not keep up with you guys .... so we need all of this other stuff for free ... in addition to all the old free stuff .... to keep up".

We need constant praise for minimal accomplishments, and raises. we need to skew numbers to say facts that are not real to argue points that are also not real in subjects that we simply can not debate.

"We need to control the input and the output of sexuality ... because we as a sex as are completely unable to take personal responsibility for any of our actions".

"we also need weaponized laws and culture which make our word unquestioned ..... because none of our premises stands up to very low level standard logic tests."

so if you could just hold the door open .... but not look me in the eye .... and make sure I get paid equal money for half the work while you pay for an inequitable amount of healthcare .... I'd really appreciate it. well .... I will give it lip service that it is appreciated but in fact will spitefully accept it as my entitlement."

It's like guys as a whole are out there, trying to earn, make a buck, maybe even add to the community ... and the ladies are just along for the ride and wondering where "life's gift basket" is and why the hell hasn't someone brought them one yet.

Insydeinformation · 2017-01-16T01:41:59+00:00

Feminism has, believe it or not, coincided with a vast improvement in male quality of life. Most of the worst aspects of what you guys call 'feminism' are simply holdovers from traditional gender roles: Alimony, pussy-pass, etc.

The years before feminism where 100% worse from the perspective of a male.

PonFarJarJar · 2017-01-15T21:28:06+00:00

Troll post. If not troll post, of course women know you want to to fuck them. why else would you be hitting on them. The question, as always, is do they want to fuck you too and have they made up their mind about you yet.

Title	How has modern feminism changed how you perceive women?
Author	ulando2
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Date	January 15, 2017 5:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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