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[–]avdarth6929 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Never marry. It's just comes with tons of responsibilities and problems which stack up on our existing problems and then it makes our life miserable.
[–]GoMake_me_a_sandwich9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If she wont swallow your load, there is no reason to get married.
[–]theoracleofosiris26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if she swallows it’s still not a reason to get married
[–]ELPwork7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No reason to get married at all. They have to change the divorce laws drastically before I would even consider getting married. You get your retirement, I get mine, we split everything bought during the marriage and abolish alimony, reign in the outrageous Child support money. The parent with custody has to provide receipts 3-4 times a year to the court to account for every cent, to make sure they Child Support money is supporting the child. Any unspent CS money goes into an account for the child to be received on their 18th birthday. Lots more, but it'll never happen so I don't worry about it much. =)
[–]teslaistheshit1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My thoughts exactly. It'll never happen in my lifetime so I'm not even going to consider getting married again.
[–]CeleritySteam1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if they did that the laws can and will change retroactively so it's still an Athotha Ackbar moment.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guess what happens as soon as the marriage certificate is signed...
[–]LastRedshirt7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Visiting my parents, I (42) told them (after the usual "when do you marry?!?" (I have 2 married siblings)) that I don't plan to marry - especially not a woman with a child. My mother became bitter. I told her, that my little brother (who married a woman with a child (boy) and now has 3 daughters with her) is probably not that happy (my nieces are quite loud) as she thinks - and he movies every 3-4 years to make more money to pay his debts ...
I may be living alone and I am not as free as I want to be, but its way better than his life.
[–]ka0t1k5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All fun and games until youre 45 and cant afford your lifestyle anymore
[–]WaywardStag3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine if a guy wrote that...
[–]hrm08942 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Married people always tell me how much work they have to put in to maintain the relationship. Why the FUCK would I want more work? Lmfao.
[–]PipBoyTInkerer4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember dealing with this shit with a college gf. She wanted a ring, but:
It took me a bit of time to realize the trap I was walking into, but thankfully I dodged that bullet once the sex dried up (was great at first, but slowly drifted away as she got more comfortable).
[–]FutureIsManAndRobot[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the advice lady, I'm taking it to the letter.
[–]U-941 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only allow things to stress you out if they financially compensate.
[–]Zaxh21081 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In fucking single and I have to work ?? What am I doing wrong ??
[–]Baljeetgotmod0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She seems very educated in stupidity
[–]avdarth697 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How is it stupidity? We are literally on a page which encourages us not to marry. Everything she wrote is absolutely correct.
[–]CeleritySteam0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's funny is she's talking about herself (don't take a betabux unless he can subsidize your life) but it's more true of men.
[–]Baljeetgotmod0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s talking about not wanting to marry somebody because she thinks she isn’t obligated to work in that relationship... do you not see what’s wrong here?
[–]Bri-700 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Free to have as many cats as you like! Options include Black, White, Orange, and mixed colors. Work and pay taxes woman, that's what you are good for.
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