I want to go my own way. But I never had a girlfriend in the first place. Should I first make my experiences and then decide whether to go my own way, or should I go MGTOW right away?

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-08-07T20:28:29+00:00

A smart man learns from his mistakes.

A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

That said, what path you go is up to you. If you haven’t had a GF and aren’t particularly interested in one, then don’t get worked up for it. The dating market is so insane right now that it’s not worth too much in pursuit.

Rittzbitch · 2019-08-07T20:25:51+00:00

Start off right. GYOW. Don't put yourself through the bullshit.

Bobolink911 · 2019-08-07T22:32:37+00:00

I've been with plenty of women my guy... in my completely honest opinion, I wish I hadn't. The pussy is all the same in different packages. It's way cheaper, easily spent over 30k on dates and trips and other bs that they wanted. The happiness they bring is easily overshadowed by the amount of stress they bring. They will eventually use guilt and shaming (especially at your age) to control you. Your friendships will likely suffer. If you have any insecurities they will definitely come into the light. And so many more negatives. It's truly up to you, I say go for it atleast once. But when it inevitably goes sideways, GYOW all the way. Much love from a MGTOW brother.

Gilglamesh · 2019-08-07T21:02:12+00:00

I would recommend staying away from a female unless you will be her first and only man. If you are not her first and only sexual partner, you need to stay the hell away from her, or risk catching Stds, Stis or even HIV

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-08-07T21:08:26+00:00

Its best to avoid. Prevention is better than cure. Learn others' mistakes, our mistakes and live your life. If you want sex get an escort.

MonsterHipster · 2019-08-08T00:46:35+00:00

You won't know what you're missing but there prostitution everywhere so gyow.

Rittzbitch · 2019-08-08T18:30:23+00:00

Never had a girlfriend either, glad I'm GMOW, you can learn just by watching, no need to get yourself into trouble to learn something you already know.

Krazyrobus · 2019-08-07T21:32:43+00:00

I suggest you do, just keep her at arms length, who knows, maybe relationships are for you.

drDretx · 2019-08-07T22:00:20+00:00

i am observing

GoMake_me_a_sandwich · 2019-08-07T23:37:12+00:00

How old are you?

thegentlebenbear · 2019-08-08T00:00:39+00:00

You are hearing from a lot of MGTOW "Monks" here. Their intentions are good as they want to save you from yourself. I'm a Bachelor though. Which means I date and sleep with women but follow 3 golden rules:

Don't get married
Don't live with a woman
Don't get a woman pregnant

You have to be careful though if you have never had a girlfriend. You could fall into a state of false euphoria and become her slave. If you can follow the three golden rules, then go get a girl.

However, as the monks have warned. You have to be careful with false rape allegations, nagging, loss of personal free time... did I mention nagging?

avtarius · 2019-08-08T08:54:22+00:00

If you feel like you can't learn from others' documented experiences, then you'll need to experience it yourself.

Most recent example :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fssFXlNk6vw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60jYIA6kWfA (Follow Up Video)

MuleFool42 · 2019-08-07T20:32:58+00:00

Only monks don't have gfs. Lot of MGTOW have girlfriends. MGTOW doesn't mean not having relationships. Just don't get married, don't live with her, and don't get her pregnant.

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