-socially inept and never had friends or a girlfriend or any positive interactions with women. -physically unattractive (5’4, big forehead, sub par face)

I repeatedly get told to keep being positive but how am I supposed to be positive when I have nothing in life to be positive about? How am I supposed to be confident when I simply existed around women at my school, making them cringe, and even worse if I approached them, making them gag?

How are you supposed to be positive when you keep failing, harder and harder at everything you try and life and to never succeed whether it ranges from your career to talking to women?

Does anyone understand how I feel?