Please talk me out of going into a serious relationship

801735 · 2019-07-25T21:22:49+00:00

and I know deep inside I don't want it

Then don't do it. What seems to be the problem?

scaur · 2019-07-25T21:29:05+00:00

Tell her you lost your job.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-07-25T21:32:13+00:00

She's not yours, it's just your turn.

cryptomoonlanding · 2019-07-25T21:39:27+00:00

“Serious”, that should be enough. Only women want serious. When have you ever used that word in a positive light? “He has a serious disease.” Or “This shit is serious.” Serious is the opposite of fun, you either want fun or serious in life. Which one is it?

user_miki · 2019-07-25T21:45:15+00:00

Get out now!You loose your freedom.If you value it.if not stay in and play nice.

bjones7028 · 2019-07-25T21:24:45+00:00

Monogamy is fine just don’t put a ring on it

3gm22 · 2019-07-25T21:25:57+00:00

Tell her the truth. If shes not using you, she will be cool with it. I imagine though she won't be... as most women wont admit, they usually use a man till he drops or is of no use anymore. Just be honest, and prepare yourself to live with the consequences.

[deleted] · 2019-07-25T21:22:12+00:00

Serious for you, maybe.

500dollarsinprizes · 2019-07-25T22:25:04+00:00

You WILL give up so much time and effort to redirect towards her. Were you doing something with your time and effort? Are you willing to lose out on that, for her company and what she brings?

The thing about lobster, crab, and mouse traps, is that they’re enticing on the way in. So it’s not the entry that we avoid here - it’s the exit. And there WILL be an exit.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-07-25T21:38:54+00:00

It feels good, but there is a cost to everything. Will you sacrifice pieces of yourself? Will you continue to stay on your path of improvement? Will you shell out extra cash for her?

Will you attempt to "save" her? "Provide" for her? Can you guarantee she will be loyal and return the same amount of effort you will invest in her?

Think about your dad, your uncle - go back to your best childhood friend's parent and think about what their parents were like.

Are you pressing pause on your plans for her?

You come first.

RedPilledFanatic · 2019-07-25T21:40:46+00:00

Much have been said. In my experience: relationships with these creatures are wonderful. For 3 weeks. 3 months at best. Then she will become dissatisfied and the BS drama starts. Go ahead and burn yourself OP. IDGAF. Heck, it's even written in the Bible... There was a period of time between the rib and the apple when all was fine in paradise. You don't have to be religious, just take those words from guys 2 or 3 k years ago at heart. Women are useless in a sexy looking way.

[deleted] · 2019-07-25T21:45:53+00:00

you should have started pushing buttons and trying to draw out her psycho on the first date..

crazy never consciously reveals itself, and you have to test her and watch for red flags.

you should break up with her over text and see what happens.

[deleted] · 2019-07-25T22:15:00+00:00

Accept it. You are a simp. Nothing wrong with it. Men fight it tooth and nail but you wouldn't get this far without being a coward.

Truthfully, you are seeking some hatred your way so you can label MGTOW as 'misogeeenustikk' and crawl your way into pussy.

No respect is lost my man. You never earned it.

ka0t1k · 2019-07-26T00:22:56+00:00

the modern whore is no man's property only a liability

deeselecter · 2019-07-26T01:28:28+00:00

Well why not go for it and see what happens. It will probably be the best to learn. I will advice you to limit ur loses.

Amazing_dick_punt · 2019-07-26T02:18:13+00:00

Daily lurker here/MGTOW way before this sub even existed. Just want to say that a lot of these dudes speak my language so I'm confused as to why anyone would ask help forming concepts and ideas to keep them out of a relationship when you literally have a mountain of real life experience, right at your finger tips, that can help you form your own ideas and concepts. It doesn't take long for me to figure out if I agree or disagree with ideas/concepts of other people, so IMO you either identify with this or you don't. You sound to me like you're in the "don't" category. You're fears of losing this "great" girl and lack of experience tell me that you should go your own way and figure it out. Stop over analyzing the shit, and stop with the checklist of fears that are warring against you.

[deleted] · 2019-07-26T03:28:32+00:00

Just don't fuckin do it retard what kinda retard are you retard

v0lvic · 2019-07-26T04:31:46+00:00

please talk me out of setting myself on fire. There are troves of info and examples out there...log jam of the brain i tell ya.

transcis · 2019-07-26T13:44:20+00:00

So, out of the two of you who is pushing the serious monogamy idea? It seems that it is not you.

Here is what you can expect as you move down this road as reported by other members of this sub:

Dwindling sex life.

Increasing manipulation. Realization that you are stuck and the girl you thought was great turns out AWALT.

Regular frequent nagging. Total loss of privacy. Pillow talks of infuriating kind. Jealousy of any hint of happiness you display and increasing attempts to rob you of your happiness. Increasing demands. Mood swings which may turn violent. Severe limitations in your personal spending. Severe limitations of your leisure time activities. Losing access to your friends due to demands on your time as well as through direct demands not to see some of them.

Marriage.

I am sure you are well aware what happens after marriage.

bamabeatsny · 2019-07-27T12:38:47+00:00

Holy shit, man. Spend a DAY reading here, or two, and you'll have plenty of reasons to not do it.

Or, go ahead, and do it. Get your heart broken by that unicorn, and then come back and share your story.

Easy way, or the hard way.

I wish to God I had this information 30 years ago. My life would have been MUCH different.

Title	Please talk me out of going into a serious relationship
Author	liror
Upvotes	10
Comments	30
Date	July 25, 2019 9:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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