What’s up guys.

This girl I took on two dates (post red pill and post improvement) who I have a bit of a blue pill history with from high school just tried to put me in the friend zone again. We had cut contact because we both wanted different things.

3 years later , she hits me up and I think maybe she sees my progress and wants to fuck now... went on two dates, did a lot of making out, got her naked in my bed, but she just wouldn’t let me fuck.

We were just speaking on the phone and she really tried hard to be my friend. She was saying she wanted to learn from me and all this extra ass shit. Because to be honest I am a pretty chill guy to be around. But I don’t just give myself to anyone who wants to be near me. Honestly though she just wanted validation and attention from someone she knows likes her.

I played like I would think about it and that maybe we could do it, but to be honest at the end of the day in my head I knew that I couldn’t do that simp shit. This girl is a slut for other men, but doesn’t want to put out for me. I think she was trying holding on to who I was back in my blue pill days, she even said that she loved me, but never got the chance to say it. She didn’t know she could love a friend she said. Smh.

I told her that it’s a no go from me. I know what I want in my head and I’m not gonna settle for less. She said she wasn’t attracted to me in that way and yeah it stings but I know you can’t negotiate attraction so I just had to let the whole interaction go.

Yes I would’ve loved to chill with her, but I knew that I couldn’t look at her and chill with her without wanting to rip her clothes off. That wasn’t gonna fly. And i wasn’t going to dig that rabbit hole for myself. I know it’s a buffer.

My question though to you guys is how do you handle girls who just want to be friends that you know you want to fuck?

In the long run I hope I made the right choice. I feel I did.