Hey all,

My (M36) wife (F35) and I have been married for 10 years. She is extremely attractive, and a lot more successful than I am. I was honestly surprised when she started making motions at me to ask her out 12 years ago.

Soon after marriage, we had our first kid (F9). My wife has more career potential than I do so I became a stay-at-home dad. She informed me a year later that she would like to have kids with higher status and better looking men for her own pleasure, to improve the status of women, and to pass on her genes to kids who have higher chances of succeeding. She reminded me that her career (she was making $110K at the time) was paying the bills and giving me status, and that if there was divorce, the courts will give her our kid. She informed me that she does still love me, and she and I do spend the night together, but she also wants to have experiences with other men. Since I am good with kids, she wants me to raise the kids she has with other men. Not seeing an option, I agreed and she brought in 3 other kids.

I told my wife that I am happy that she is doing well and enjoying herself and providing for me, but that I would like another kid of my own. She responded that she feels she has had enough kids for now and most likely will not want one; not with the stage her career is at. I pleaded for another one of my own and she started telling me how I do not own her womb and I should be grateful that I got to marry and have a kid with a woman who makes $300K a year and who is significantly more attractive than I am. She then made me spend the weekend in the hotel room to "ponder and consider [my] inappropriate actions".

I do get what my wife is saying, but I do want my own kid. AITA?

/s