Most women have a 'backup' man. If you're 'good friends' with a taken woman, surprise, you are that backup man.

Steaknkidney45 · 2019-07-29T16:12:59+00:00

I'm 32 now and it didn't take me until 30 or so to completely realize that. Much of my 20s was spent in relative ignorance of the female mind. I truly believe it gets better for males once we get older and wiser.

swankvagabond · 2019-07-29T16:20:29+00:00

Actually there are two kind of backup. One is called monkey-branching and the other are the orbiters.

Women monkey-branches to the next best tier who could be the potential partner to secure her future.

And meanwhile and when, not if but when the plan fails, they catch one of the orbiters' attention who is the best provider and plans his future for her since the orbiter is a beta blue pill simp who's willing to do anything to take a whiff of her panties, so she trap him into marriage.

Women are never alone. They always have someone following them like abandoned puppies.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-07-29T16:15:52+00:00

You can love them or understand them, never both

Haywood_Jablomie42 · 2019-07-29T18:20:29+00:00

I'm about to turn 35, I realized that shit before I turned 20. Any time I hear a woman complain about "Where are the nice guys?", I always tell them that they're being treated like shit until they stop being nice.

anongogogo · 2019-07-29T16:41:17+00:00

AKA the backup tire. You can be replace. You are not special. You are everywhere. That's how they see you. Don't be a backup tire.

Gemjab · 2019-07-29T21:11:56+00:00

Pro tip. If your into a girl and she says she “loves” you (aka I want your shit)ask her to get rid of all social media. See what happens next. Besides Reddit have been social media free for 3 years. Cannot imagine going back to those cess pools. The reason social media is so big is bc it gives woman what they want which is attention. Trust me if she’s worth a lick she will have no FB,Ig,Snapchat,Twitter, etc etc etc. Good luck.

NAILmg42 · 2019-07-29T16:09:32+00:00

Yeah because a women's life has to go somewhere.

Morality is irrelevant to them and only benefit is of priority

c001hax0r · 2019-07-29T19:48:39+00:00

Indian women have more than one backup man namely: - childhood friend - friend of her brother - friend from college - facebook friend - school friend - work friend

All of which are platonic. But you can't talk to a single girl.

Raider_Scavver · 2019-07-29T18:47:37+00:00

She's never your girl, it's just your turn.

laneaway2 · 2019-07-29T16:37:25+00:00

Most women have several ‘backup’ men. Always remember fellas: she’s never yours, it’s just your turn. GYOW.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-07-29T16:23:16+00:00

Yet she will still expect the backup horse to be a better horse than the last horse who didn't give a shit about her!

DigiThug · 2019-07-29T21:41:00+00:00

I realized this after dating a girl that would kinda of push and pull untill I got tired and quit, and even when she tried to make chase her again I refused, then some months later she got back with her ex, she just wanted someone to stroke her ego after he psichologicaly destroyed her, and in case they never got back she would with me and probably cheat on me. Guys if she acts as if she has doubts about being with you, you take an L.

FaustoLG · 2019-07-29T17:31:42+00:00

Excellent point, thanks for sharing that bit of wisdom.

FritzLn · 2019-07-29T22:52:33+00:00

haha, they have dozens of backup men

[deleted] · 2019-07-29T23:39:48+00:00

Yes that happened to me. Went drinking with a female friend who told her Boyfriend that she was out with a group of friends (feelsbadman), she then got high and told me that if I asked her out to be my Girlfriend, she would immediately dump her current guy for me.

Helikzhan · 2019-07-29T18:43:36+00:00

That or her pogo stick until she marries the rich guy.

juice_bomb · 2019-07-29T19:02:47+00:00

These days its better to be the backup (if you have your own sex life) than it is to tbe the primary.

edit: I mean to be the guy they monkey-branch to, not the beta orbiter.

eduardkoopman · 2019-07-29T20:57:43+00:00

more often, multipule backups.
Also different kinds.

It's also an insurance policy, for them. Or that is how it my feel to her.

[deleted] · 2019-07-29T22:40:14+00:00

And just how they can flip out when the backup plan says no.

VladutzTheGreat · 2019-07-29T23:08:21+00:00

Im good friends with lots of women...should I be worried?

GhostMan0214 · 2019-07-30T02:25:10+00:00

Here's a snapple fact for you guys:

In nature, there are a handful of sexual strategies. One is where the males compete (the females may or may not orbit an alpha in that scenario) , one is where the females give everyone a turn at some point, and another is where they compete for the males because of the scarcity of males.

There's an article somewhere on an experiement where they brought women in and made them read a "news article" that said more men were coming to the university they were attending. They immediately felt like they were over the moon and lots of positive self-image and stuff. They did the same that said more women were coming and their vody positivity went way down and they got pretty bummy and sick to their stomachs.

It's a numbers game. I went to one town and I was a king. I went to another and I was another shithead.

Do with that as you will, I guess.

bansheeman · 2019-07-29T22:04:17+00:00

Very, very true

TheSilverShade · 2019-07-30T00:13:42+00:00

Aka friendzone

remmuh1985 · 2019-07-30T02:07:55+00:00

Wrong, you're the emotional tampon. The backup guy is already fucking her and doesn't know she's got a boyfriend.

Rafique678 · 2019-07-30T00:07:56+00:00

And then she goes like "Surprise, motherfucker!!!!!"

iluvfrostidflaks · 2019-07-30T00:42:37+00:00

uh yeah dude i think a woman with a close male friends isnt relationship material anyways.

Patricijaobjectdude · 2019-07-30T06:49:26+00:00

I don't have any female friend in my life. Just acquaintances.

I learned the hard way that EVERY SINGLE TIME a woman is nice to you, she's covertly asking you to do something.

She does something for you, she excepts something in return, doesn't tell you this, neither does she tell you what she wants, just drops random coded hints.

Of course, I end up being the asshole because I couldn't read her mind.

[deleted] · 2019-07-30T14:45:08+00:00

He's just a friend I've known since elementary school

Translation: He's a back up, he likes me, and I string him along to get him to do things for me.

If any of y'all are still dating, tell your girl that the girl your texting is "just a friend you've known for a while" and watch that hamster wheel spin.

deeselecter · 2019-07-30T03:13:31+00:00

Remember when I used to work on shopping areas in Soho ny. U can't find woman walking the aisle by herself. Surely if she ia attractive. There is always some dudes or dudes on guard duty.

[deleted] · 2019-07-30T05:05:15+00:00

I just realized this about a friend of mine.

yukdave · 2019-07-30T06:49:51+00:00

NO NO they are just pals. No one wants to have sex. Buddies.

Antipc02 · 2019-07-30T00:19:40+00:00

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Title	Most women have a 'backup' man. If you're 'good friends' with a taken woman, surprise, you are that backup man.
Author	npc_slayer_420
Upvotes	376
Comments	80
Date	July 29, 2019 4:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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