I(30yo) was blind in love thinking her to be unicorn. She(28yo) slept with 3 men before me(maybe more). On digging about her past by establishing fake trust on her and assure-ity she came out. She told me in December'18 she had a boyfriend. Then on digging further she told me she had another in feb'19 beginning & then on digging further she slept with the third guy.

Well! there it was the third guy was being parallel-y dated when I came into her life through a matrimonial site. She projected him as a friend but actually turned out to be a boyfriend she slept with. I broke up with her only for the reason she did not had any relationship dignity. I was told that guy was trying to love-bully her by taking over her business. She may have a solid reason for leaving him.

Unfortunately! Before I came to know about the third one. I made her meet my family thinking she was the right one. My family exchanged presents thinking to decide about my marriage with her.

A month after the meeting when I came to know about the third guy.
But in my eyes she lost value of her word. She could have told me in the first go.

It matters to me how many men she slept with.

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Then I came to reddit I got to know about MGTOW.

I am on a matrimonial site but I don't want to get married. I want to fix myself better.