I'm mid 30s. Not a chad. There was a time where you went to a place. For me, for the most part it was a skating rink. I never skated. Well, a few times. Mostly we hung out, guys and girls. People met. Interactions ensue. This was pre internet mind you. Just by being there, existing, things moved. Relationships happened. That was were you started. How you learned.

Reading these posts about kiss less virgins....Its wrong. You all have been fucked. Well, you have been wronged. This isn't really how things go, how they are. I guess it is now. It's not how it was. It was very different not too terribly long ago. I live here too. In this world. Its weird and not natural at all. Best advice I have is a improper quote.

A fool learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from anothers'.