Going through a hard anger phase

o0perfect0o · 2019-07-07T22:36:19+00:00

Happens man. I used to get pissed when I was working out and their was some big tittied bimbo sitting on a bench for 20 minutes doing nothing. They are who they are.

The other day this girl came up to me at my apartment pool and gave me a rock. She said penguins give rocks to penguins they wanna mate with. I said cool. Then I gave her the rock back and chilled and had a convo for like 10 minutes. Was friendly but didnt engage with her flirtatiously.

I dunno man you kind just get over it. You don't get mad when it storms. It's just a thing that happens.

DangZagnut · 2019-07-07T22:36:43+00:00

If you know its the case, why be mad about it? It's like being upset at a dog that bit you. O.k. it's over. Double standards, lying, deceit, just be aware and move on.

Don't get mad at the snake on the sidewalk, just walk around it. If you're still mad, then you're still blue pilling.

blue_navy · 2019-07-07T22:22:59+00:00

Anger is absolutely normal reaction to injustice, but it’s only normal when it’s not persistent. Like high body temperature when you’re fighting the virus. If high temperature stays for too long, it starts to affect healthy cells and damages your body. Similarly, when you can’t control your anger and let it linger it starts to affect your life and your mental health. Try focusing on positive things, don’t think about women, don’t socialize with them, basically cut out everything that triggers anger and hatred.

king-of-the-light · 2019-07-07T22:48:07+00:00

Yes, it's eye opener. When you stop craving for women attention you are discovering purpose in life. You are like a little Buddha. PUA is scam making money on simps who are attending their seminars. Meanwhile we go camping to discover beauty of nature and you can see how little women is willing to accompany you and if they finally do they get bored of it very fast. No internet, no Instagram to post their stupid face by the campfire, nobody to give them attention, no shopping for MK purse or 'free' $10 drinks. Nothing good comes from any relationship with any woman on this planet and I was raised in traditional Catholic family where my parents are together for over 40 years but those days are over and we have no other choice but to adapt to existing reality.

Praeda18 · 2019-07-07T23:36:08+00:00

You sound like you’ve already started making steps on your path (young, employed, exercise & spending time with your father) so i’ll happily share some wisdom:

The anger will subside, but if you hold onto it you will get burned. Hard. Learn to channel your anger & frustration into productive and/or creative outlets such as gym, reading, writing, drawing, sports, etc. Let it both fuel you & push you to achieve your goals but as you get older temper that anger into self-motivation. Stay on your path & try not to worry about what everyone else is doing. Network with strangers & friends, bringing those who are supportive along for the ride (do not forget give and take). If you’re a natural leader, don’t be afraid to put your own crew on but don’t rub it in the faces of your peers or they may conspire to bring you down if/when given the chance.

Don’t stress about girls, or not being “in” or “cool”, nor about pushing your personal brand on socials; social media validation cannot be used to pay bills and will hold you back amongst the proverbial mediocrity of the masses. Don’t feel ashamed about anything you genuinely enjoy doing and you are under no obligation whatsoever to share anything about yourself with anyone, especially with women who can not even understand the concept of doing something for fun (as opposed to for social media validation).

To share an anecdote: i look like a muscled tattooed thug, dress like a teenage skatepark bum, but i play DnD with a group of mates every week and need to wear my glasses to read. The times i have shared this with women, they are initially repulsed by the idea of “ew nerd”, but then this is overridden by tingles and the “he’s hot so it’s ok i guess” factor. They don’t give a shit about who you are, only what you can do for them, and how being in your company will benefit them socially and/or elevate them in the eye of their peers. Comes to terms with the fact, get over it, become a man and do your thing.

Best of luck.

iseehot · 2019-07-07T22:35:39+00:00

Acting on that anger is where you can be tripped up. Figure out what calms you or deflects it when it comes and start working on discipline.

massy525 · 2019-07-07T23:18:22+00:00

sick of feeling ashamed for liking video games.

Not too much red pill then. Fuck what some women think. Video game are the ultimate no value to women activity. That is the only reason they hate them.

BrizzLatency · 2019-07-07T23:26:19+00:00

Dude I dont even know if the part where you dont want to hear women talk anymore changes Like I can barely listen to them talk ever. That shit sucks lmao like just suck my dick and leave.

DannyTTT55 · 2019-07-07T22:51:50+00:00

When you see the ethnocentric society for the first time and see how wome take advantage of MEN and how society doesn't think twice about letting them get away with it, it sucks

But the more you go your own way and disconnect from that life the more you realize that a lot is still in your control and as long as you don't play the game you'll be fine, even while some blue pilled cucks won't be

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-07-08T00:31:59+00:00

You'll get over it. Its called the Red Pill Rage. I'll admit, I am disgusted at anything with a vagina. The key to remember is that they are able to do what they do and be where they are, say and do all that they do because someone allowed them to. They have been granted privilege and someone is just exploiting their nature.

RIchardjCranium · 2019-07-08T00:43:15+00:00

Do whatever you need to to fix yourself and get past the anger because trust me it’s 100 times worse when you’re in your 50’s and still angry.

Abusing-Green · 2019-07-08T00:50:36+00:00

Red pill rage Tm is real my brother.

But remember hate isn’t the opposite of love/care but it’s inverse.

If you truly wish to go your own way you need to remove your attention from women and give it to yourself and your own self improvement.

Hate is still giving women the attention you deserve. Instead aim for indifference.

For indifference is the opposite of love and hate.

Why_should_I_mayne · 2019-07-08T04:57:43+00:00

Yeah, I feel you bro. It's hard to not be mad at everything in general. Not just women, but society in general. Politically, economically, socially, USA is going to the shitter, meanwhile your average NPC is more concerned about some NFL game, vote for human vile shit to lead this country into absolute chaos. Fuck these people, fuck everything. Sometimes even just gotta turn off the news cuz I hate this clown world. Whatever, let it burn, hopefully I can just ignore it and watch from afar as these idiots destroy themselves. Try my best to be stoic about it, sometimes it isn't easy.

tyu45throwaway · 2019-07-07T22:22:59+00:00

It’s called “red pill rage”. You’re in that phase where you’re angry about female nature in this world; you can’t believe that they would do this sort of thing. It’s part of digesting the red pill.

tyu45throwaway · 2019-07-07T22:25:33+00:00

I’ve gone through this before (still do but occasionally). There comes a point that you just have to accept it. You’ll become a better person when all is said and done.

LOIKDU · 2019-07-08T09:34:48+00:00

i've been following the red pill

You mean the blue pill, that's why you're finally angry. I remember these people seeming like blue pill men next to TFM.

It's normal but you should try to stop consuming MGTOW content at some point. It will definitely calm you down.

Bombinic · 2019-07-08T13:02:10+00:00

Start listening to Nonpoint.

WhiteTrashTexan · 2019-07-08T04:11:33+00:00

I think you’re becoming too insulated in this and other niche communities. It’s easy to accumulate hate, then find yourself far over the appropriate line when dealing with people in real life. There are ladies that you’d click with, it just takes a lot of effort to go the right places and meet them.

Title	Going through a hard anger phase
Author	locomotronn
Upvotes	28
Comments	22
Date	July 7, 2019 10:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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