I Can Only Show You The Door. You Have To Walk Through It.

Docbear64 · 2017-05-16T16:00:25+00:00

This is why all the dudes who try to save their best buddies from their mean , manipulative overbearing wives & girlfriends don't understand that you can't save / educate someone .

You mean well, you want to make sure your buddy doesn't get hurt, you see what TRP has done for your dating and sex life and you want to spread the news.

Congrats on your success but understand that even if your buddy is miserable , constantly bitching , and states everyday how he can't wait to dump the bitch . 90% of the time it's all talk . The easiest thing in the world to do is to sit back and let life urn on autopilot . You're in a miserable relationship until you aren't . Many men rather be unhappy with somebody versus happy and alone .

So yes bros before hoes and helping a brother out are nice altruistic concepts BUT you will never get a man to change how he approaches his life unless he's actually looking to change his life in the first place. Most of your friends really don't want to change their lives they just want to bitch for a while and then go right back into their misery .

MattyAnon · 2017-05-16T17:10:54+00:00

shows that only 37% will read opposing ideas

It's as high as 37%???

Most people (and I am including many TRP readers in this) will not look at opposing viewpoints. They want arguments to prove that they are right, they are not interested in truth. This is human nature.

To everyone who says "prove TRP is right" I say "prove your Blue Pull lies are right, because I've got a pile of studies here that show it's nothing more than myth and dogma".

However... when you're right, you are strengthened by seeing the opposite point of view. When you're wrong, you get closer to the truth by seeing the opposite point of view. In other words, right or wrong, you benefit from seeing the other side.

So... test all your assumptions against the opposite point of view. Ask women what they think about this stuff .... hear their side. Try and understand it. See how it holds up as truth and as a model of the world. Bear in mind their biases and motivations. But also - there is bias and motivation in TRP too. We are pushing a world view... in some cases because we believe it's true, in others because it's a boy's club - complete with investment/hazing ("anger phase") and potential inclusion ("swallowing the pill") and the priesthood to aspire to (the EC's and Vanguards and mods).

Hopefully, the majority here are in the 37% that want more knowledge. Hopefully those here want their mental maps to reflect reality as accurately as possible.

I looked hard for TRP exceptions. Married, loyal women who never cheated and were always awesome to their husbands and worked hard and contributed as much as the man.

Still looking.

Conceited-Monkey · 2017-05-16T16:27:33+00:00

I have done a lot of reading on how people develop opinions and how human thought processes work and I continue to be astounded we are still alive as a species.

BudRock56 · 2017-05-16T16:08:04+00:00

Point taken. But I have come to believe that some of these purported teachers and leaders here are nothing but charlatans who are engaging in malfeasance and are negligently and needlessly leading astray those who genuinely come here to better their lives. I will not speculate on motive, but I will say that reducing the art of bitch seduction to a one-size-fits-all How-to manual with step by step instructions is very, very non-Alpha. By comparison, the dude who posted yesterday about fucking the Bitch who was engage, THAT is Alpha.

SoulRedemption · 2017-05-16T23:08:55+00:00

Short, subtle and nicely put. Also the percentage info is something new I've heard. It makes sense and this is what a lot of people are now-a-days. I have close friends who would disagree or lie out of spite when it comes to certain things. But I also have close friends who are open. They are a mixture of both and maybe I am too.

Thanks for reminding everyone something so subtle and small, but very important:

Read the sidebar!

And may I add - start applying!

Huskimbo9 · 2017-05-17T02:04:51+00:00

I tried so many times to have my friends on the same page

Gumps don't want no help,they don't get no help. Don't give a damn anymore unless they are asking constantly for it.

I think what all brought us here is we got curious so that's maybe how it should be.

Title	I Can Only Show You The Door. You Have To Walk Through It.
Author	Hulegu2
Upvotes	37
Comments	19
Date	May 16, 2017 3:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6bi02r/i_can_only_show_you_the_door_you_have_to_walk/
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