For those who don't know, I am capable of error. This is just my opinion and not Cold Hard FactTM. If you don't like it, say why like an adult instead of leaving an emotional response.

If I wanted reactionary responses rooted in emotion, I'd go to r/thebluepill. Onto the post.

After posting the 'Female Mating Playbook, page 1', I got a plethora of responses, many good, and some damp from beta-tears. It made me think about the stigma associated with infidelity, and who monogamy benefits. Then i realized that women, the masters of doublethink, practice hypergamy and (in the same breath) say that cheating is wrong.

1.) The Stigma Of Cheating

Our culture (for the sake of this thread, i will be talking about America) has numerous names, most of them disparaging, for people who break the social contract of a committed relationship. Society has created a culture of shame associated with people who not only break the contract, but the people who aid in it or do not prevent it from happening. The question is why?

I would guess it is because 51% of the american populace is female, and they are being aided by non-alpha males. This is not an attack against them or even a negative criticism of their goals. In fact, they are playing to their own interests by promoting monogamy and socially shaming those who do not.

2.) What the women gain

By promoting monogamy, the women have free reign to pursue a variety of males through strings of several "committed relationships" (this is merely hypergamy). These relationships allow the female the luxury of being able to claim a man until a better one comes and she is free to leave.

This dynamic also serves to keep men from pursuing other women while in the "committed relationship" for fear of social reprisal. Women will appeal to a man's sense of honor to keep him loyal. Worse, a woman can tell of a man's infidelity and it will make other women (who are playing by their own rules) publicly avoid him as a prospective mate.

3.) What beta's gain

By promoting monogamy, the beta is the ally of the woman. They (foolishly) believe that monogamy will ensure their chances of mating because the idea of hypergamy is foreign to them. They will viciously (more than women) shame any male who breaks from the script because it not only threatens the perceived social hierarchy, but it threatens them personally because it means that at any second an alpha can be stealing "their girl".

4.) The thing that really counts

Firstly, remember, morality is subjective and has zero context when it comes to mating. Those who mate win and those who don't mate lose. Our ancestors were winners and billions of people have come and gone who weren't. We are designed to mate by the most efficient means with the most efficient results. Moral judgments about mating often come from those who aren't mating.