Why the hell do I get so angry when I lose?

yokai_e1even · 2019-06-21T19:45:25+00:00

Because you never learned how to accept defeat and failure. It build up character and makes you better and stronger.

It's called being competitive.

[deleted] · 2019-06-21T19:49:59+00:00

we often suffer more in imagination than in reality. most of the time if you actually ask yourself why you suffer, and you're truthful with yourself, then you will be ashamed at how hard you make it for yourself.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-06-21T19:48:17+00:00

You haven't learned that sometimes you win and sometimes you lose.

You only accept the win, but fail to accept the loss.

It's just like life.

After my divorce, it kind clicked, like, losing stuff is part of life.

obviously, sometimes your aim is to "win, win, win" like in sports or video games, but.. learn to accept the loss - especially when the ramifications mean only beans or internet points. Atleast it isn't alimony, back taxes, or tickets.

hiem3w · 2019-06-21T20:03:53+00:00

Just keep losing and you’ll learn to get used to it. I lose all the time (school, games, hobbies, women, family, friends, etc). You just develop an “oh well” attitude.

This one streamer I used to watch said “you win some you lose some” and now I say it all the time. (It’s funny when you lose most of them).

Be proud. Some people don’t have balls to play at all.

user_miki · 2019-06-21T20:22:58+00:00

Listen, you learn more from losing than from gaining.Embrace it,It is positive( as long as you are not retarded).It is a part of growing up as person.

cryptotim70726 · 2019-06-21T21:14:01+00:00

Because you were always given a participation trophy.

rodolfo77777 · 2019-06-21T23:34:30+00:00

violence is the last refuge of the incompetent

Title	Why the hell do I get so angry when I lose?
Author	yokai_e1even
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	June 21, 2019 7:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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