Why so many guys look towards settling down before they hit their 30s if they haven't already.

whatsthisgarg · 2017-06-26T05:41:48+00:00

More whiney downer shit from a sour grapes "you should all just give up" because Chads and Stacys and high school jocks and Bilzerian and blah blah blah

you forgot to push social media in this one, brah, like you did in the thousand other posts you made from your other account that was banned and suspended because you suck

eat shit and die, please

[deleted] · 2017-06-26T06:04:23+00:00

Your conclusions don't take into account the many men that are ignorant of the courts, media brainwashing, and 3rd wave feminist agenda constantly influencing them at this time period and prior to it.

Perhaps suddenly becoming aware of these factors play somewhat of a more significant role than: having sex all the time becoming "Lame".

Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing. For example, I feel most alone around people that I have nothing in common with. In contrast, I feel least alone when I'm by myself because I know myself and have plenty to think about.

Perhaps needing to seek comfort in others company instead of solitude is because of fearing reflection. A consistent need to fill the void with superficial details is gossip. Gossip serves no man or woman but, does serve to entertain one whom needs entertainment and information to become one in order to be retained, no matter how unfounded the information is.

The narrative: "get married to a beautiful gal or you're a loser" when filtered through the red pill becomes: "turn a hoe into a housewife. Have your sex life monopolized. Push the copy button a few times. Then have the hoe steal the children and half of your assets. Finally, watch the hoe go back to her pimp (the state) and try to trick another simp."

I highly doubt any sane man would chose this option instead of staying single, having one night stands, and keeping his crap.

Scandinavianredpill · 2017-06-26T06:42:32+00:00

I was chad from 18-23 and then again in late 20ties to now. But I honestly just have had my run, I don't find it fun anymore just to fuck around - I feel like I am using women even as they are using us constantly to their own ends. I think many men are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I really do want a family, even if it means no sex in the long term - but if you are having to deal with that and eventually divorce I think single life is better as a high income / high SMV male. Honestly I think TRP is coping - being chad and all that shit is cool for young guys that haven't had alot of experience, once you have fucked 20-100 girls it loses it's novelty. I kinda wish I could bottle in the attitude of a intelligent funny woman just as I meet her - unfortunately you can't and it's just an illusion as we all know.

Truedemocracy2 · 2017-06-26T05:47:31+00:00

You also have to consider that if you want a family, kids, and wife then it's better as a guy to lock it down somewhat sooner rather than later even if you're SMV is still climbing.

What I say by that is say you're a guy and can date down somewhat easily in age. As a 30 year old you have access to all 20s, as a late 30 year old it might be closer to upper 20s - 30s. The pool of women who would make a decent mom for your kids and wife shrinks considerably by 30 for women. Aka the smart ones by age 25 will realize play time is over and will lock up a man (beta bucks or otherwise)

So what you have at 30 for women are the old and sad party animals who are short sighted as a bat (red flag), the already divorced women now back on the market (red flag), single moms (red flag), career die hards (less of a red flag than the others but still a possible concern), along with a smaller handful of quality single women.

So if you do want that lifestyle it's a good strategy to target that mid to late 20s age range of women, if you wait until 37 you might be out of luck

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2017-06-26T11:17:23+00:00

"Most men in their 20s don't see any pleasure in being that loner who goes everywhere alone."

Most men don't even know who they are, are devoid of individual thought, enjoy being part of a crowd because they are essential cowards and follow the herd.

Thotwrecker · 2017-06-26T08:53:06+00:00

Can I make a recommendation? You're theorizing and telling us about what these random "guys" are going through as someone who is not there yet, and hasn't experienced it. You haven't experienced being the Chad yet, you haven't experienced what it feels like to be a 28 year old dude or a 35 year old dude, with an abundance of pussy (or a shortage of pussy).

You are saying the "ceiling is not as high" for 30 year old guys. I mean, it is and it isn't, it depends on the guy and his attitude. You say there are no 30 year old Chads? I know dozens personally. You cannot make these grand sweeping theories and ideologies about "what it is like" on the other side.

Like you're saying "the problem with being single after 30 is that it's hard to feel like you belong to the world" - what? Says who?

Look, guys settle down because they A) don't know any better and B) fall in love / get oneitis and C) want to have a family and D) get taken hostage by a manipulative woman and E)... you see my point, there's dozens of reasons why millions of men settle down. And the marriage age rises every year - there is also a trend at work and a global changing of male / female dynamics.

You're trying to massively simplify a bigger issue with this really, really limited TRPism that I see around here (which is that the highlight of life is being a Chad in a frat banging the some college 8 chick and getting backslapped by your friends.) That is a notion a bunch of incellites cooked up - this notion of sex and dating and hooking up being so golden and pure and beautiful as a teenager and then sad and empty afterwards. It's a internet notion, a distortion field that incels immerse themselves in. Meanwhile you go meet cool people you realize that men in their 30s are travelling the world, fucking exotic bitches, making money, fucking real big city 9s not Ann Arbor 8s.

And then another suggestion - end on some kind of statement, some kind of takeaway. You end of a question, like "I'm just spewed all this unverifiable, unsupported mental jizz all over the place, whaddya guys think? Could this change? This is where we stand!"

Dude, if you are going to take a mental dump, at least stand by your dump and try to bring it to some kind of conclusion or statement. Organize your ideas, think about how the different things you might be saying correlate. Like what is your actual point? Is it that society doesn't treat 30 + males as cool for fucking women and living the bachelor life? And this means that all of a sudden it's not worth it to be "that guy" in his 30s because you'll never get that sweet sweet societal validation that you wanted when you were 20?

So what, we're supposed to make decisions based off the fact that society won't love us for fucking younger bitches when we're older? Like have an actual point if you're going to write up a post.

Refigerator1043 · 2017-06-26T07:20:57+00:00

This guy is a mentally ill troll.

MisterRoid · 2017-06-26T09:53:54+00:00

Shit, you are right. I better find myself a fat and ugly woman in her 30s so I can settle down, have a sexless marriage, change my relationship status on Facebook and talk to the other sexless husbands of my wife's friends. I will be miserable, but at least I will finally fit in. Thanks alot for sharing your wisdom, OP!

OneRedYear · 2017-06-26T21:47:23+00:00

I'm way over 30. Divorced, single and staying that way. I have my own small tribes. Mostly creative types in one group and business types in another. I work on creative projects or business projects in my spare time and spend time with my family or a plate here and there.

Sure I had fun in college, I wasn't chad but I had my share, and after college I was a DJ and promoter so the party continued. But the party doesn't last forever and at my age I have no interest in juggling 3-5 girls anymore. It's time consuming. 2 will do just fine.

My point is, go have fun now. If you are in your 20s go join a fun scene and live life. If your in your 30s there are fun times still to be had. My early 30s where like being back in my 20s without the clubs (day game). With a good job, a nice car and a dope apartment I had zero problems. It was only after I lost everything that the good times ended. I spent the tail end of my 30s unemployed. Now I'm focusing on building wealth, creating art and getting a regular blow jobs. The simple life.

PaperStreetVilla · 2017-06-26T13:02:28+00:00

or, when a man hits his stride, options open for him, and he takes advantage quick,

a man in an LTR at 30 would be like a 18 year old woman in a committed relationship

anonymous7499 · 2017-06-26T22:59:49+00:00

I mean you don't have forever to live, so....yeah. This is all assuming that these high SMV men can live healthily past the age of 40. I know most men by that age have blood and cardio problems (like most Americans do). A person wouldn't be good to settle down with when the bones start getting brittle.

Title	Why so many guys look towards settling down before they hit their 30s if they haven't already.
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Date	June 26, 2017 5:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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