My uncle got married around 1997 when he was 21, 4 years later he discovered that his wife was sneaking a man into the house when he was at work, it turned out to be his best friend his wife was sleeping with, I can still remember going to his house with my mother that evening when he found out, this event gradually caused him to start drinking and he became a full alcoholic and had to stop working, he may not care about this woman anymore but he is physically addicted to alcohol because of her and is incapable of going sober and it will be sure to kill him. Now this woman lives with the man along with my uncles children and new children she had with the other man too, apparently she doesn't even want my uncles sons living with her anymore and she wants them to move out so she has more room in the house for her other children.