I need some advice.

broccoligold · 2018-11-28T21:23:37+00:00

I'd highly recommend surrogacy. If you can't kick the need to reproduce, research surrogacy laws in your state and go that way. The woman is contractually obligated to forego all rights to the child (maternally and financially) in most cases. You do run the risk of the gender coin flip however.

Edit: " In adoption, for example, birth parents’ rights must be terminated before the child can be adopted into a new family. In gestational surrogacy, the intended parent is legally recognized as the child’s parent before birth, and the surrogate does not have parental rights that need to be terminated. "

S: https://surrogate.com/about-surrogacy/types-of-surrogacy/can-single-parents-pursue-surrogacy/

No1Buck · 2018-11-28T21:24:13+00:00

(We are all one day destined to kick the bucket anyway so may as well not have my offspring suffer the fate of mortality.)

You're onto something here.

r/antinatalism

Red-Lantern · 2018-11-28T21:43:31+00:00

You have 40 more years to viably have children. There's no rush. Establish yourself and live your life.

If you get the urge and have the means and right woman then you're good.

You'll have less fucks to give and can provide a better life for your kid. Not to mention you'll have your pick of young women that like silver foxes.

m5ufo · 2018-11-28T21:46:25+00:00

Pray to Mecca?

Sure, why the freaking not? Why ponder over a pile of rocks, just get right to the Kumbaya action!

[deleted] · 2018-11-28T21:49:07+00:00

All I can say is that since you are 19 at the moment, focus on yourself for now. Do you have your own place yet? Do you own transportation yet? Do you have adequate savings? These things will be necessary before even thinking of raising a child.

MuleFool42 · 2018-11-28T21:30:09+00:00

You could donate sperm. You are not legally required to help the parents but you can spread your seed far and wide.

Im_Talking · 2018-11-28T21:35:58+00:00

I don't think men have a biological need for children. Men have a need for sex.

You're 19. Ok, if you ask 19yo girls to think about children in the future, they will think of babies. Ask a 19yo guy and he will think of playing baseball with the kid. That shows the biological difference between the genders.

UnkleKrampusKids · 2018-11-28T21:36:53+00:00

Foster parenting.

rooster-one4 · 2018-11-28T22:23:16+00:00

Without factoring in your want, some practical things to think about and should take account of.

I'm a single dad. Kids suck up all of the time you have left, and are expensive (though relatively). I never had time to really become an expert in so many things that I'm pretty ok with; my single friends, never married or shortly married and then out, but no kids - they've become experts in areas at a super significant rate; they have an interest and they can focus on it all day long, for years at a time.

When you have kids, you can focus on it for maybe an hour at a time, a couple times a week. It stays in the hobby range forever.

retal1ator · 2018-11-28T22:56:24+00:00

I am EXACLTY in your situation.

Research into surrogacy and sperm donation. Unfortunately these are the only option for now, until artificial wombs become a thing.

zorosolo · 2018-11-28T21:30:35+00:00

Try to find a women you can see yourself having kids with then decide from there if you want to take the risks, you’re too young to be worrying about kids anyway. And I don’t think you have to worry too much about adoption. And you can always adopt a kid whose parents are dead.

Title	I need some advice.
Author	RealmShifterAS
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	November 28, 2018 9:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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