Questioning my values after good and bad experiences

EpicLevelCheater · 2017-08-20T16:44:29+00:00

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Heinzdoofens · 2017-08-20T04:12:19+00:00

"I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws." - Nietzsche

moonpodrising · 2017-08-20T12:20:25+00:00

Date more chicks. Bang them or not, that's up to you. I say there's nothing wrong with deciding not to have casual sex. But I don't know why you call this 'playing the nice guy'. Is denying someone sex supposed to be an act of kindness?

Dr_D1amond · 2017-08-20T10:55:23+00:00

EDIT:just read it all. Cmom dude you have a chic practically asking you to fuck her and you passed it up cos you want to be a "nice guy". Dude. If its obvious she just wants to bang then bang her.

Youre still acting out your beta programming and it sounds like you are looking for a replacement for your ex.

You didnt have any physicality with her You didnt escalate Your replies of "hit me up" were sub par. You need to be affirmative and lead.."hey.lets hang.meet me on wednesday to Chillis at 7"

Opening up emotionally to a woman is a disaster. Women need a rock. Be a rock and dont show the cracks. That shit is for you to discuss with your bros.

Youre placing this chick too high on a pedestal. Shes just another woman. So what if shes great but isnt LTR material ? Guess what.There are millions of great women who are.

It sounds like you would still make the same mistakes and act the same with any other girl. You need to come to some profound realizations about yourself before you can handle a LTR properly..

I couldn't be arsed to read your wall of text, but a quick scan reveals youre fretting about shit like her texting you back etc.

you cannot know what you want from a relationship or a partner until you have tried out the shit women and the good women

Go bang more chicks.

You need to be happy with your own self. Keep up the self improvement. You cant be with someone if you know your life would "end" if you break up.

Go bang more chicks.

LARandomActor · 2017-08-20T04:05:10+00:00

You get caught up in one girl. There is your problem - you want to meet the kind of girl you think you want, you have to date more, put yourself out there more, talk to more people, make your social circle better. Women aren't your end game, they are just going along the ride that is your awesome life.

And if you want a real chick, get off Tinder and Bumble - 9/10 chicks there are just there for the cock carousel. My experience with Tinder is similar to your - bitches that just want to sit on a new guy's face every week, and it disgusts me, too.

Heinzdoofens · 2017-08-20T04:17:16+00:00

You can never satisfy your need for emotional connection with the same girl (that you want to fuck).

You can always have deep conversations with your male buddies. Looks like you lost or don't have guy friends.

Title	Questioning my values after good and bad experiences
Author	magicpumpkinman
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	August 20, 2017 3:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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