My Monk Mode Variant

jakeyv123 · 2017-09-08T02:29:28+00:00

a major problem is that your not already assuming she is attracted to you by default. you need to understand the fact you are already good enough for her, this is very subtle but if you become this fact there will be a massive amount of attraction.

Im not saying dont work on yourself to raise your SMV, but this frame control im presenting to you will greatly boost your SMV. stop looking for a reason to base your value on something. you dont need a reason to assume massive value.

be ready to lose the girl by the way, but see it as a journey of your social experiences, use it as momentum. goodluck

uebermacht · 2017-09-07T21:29:18+00:00

Wassup you piece of fat shit,
First off; Re-Framing
Which means changing your behavior with her (and in general) to trigger attraction spikes. She will shit-test the hell out of you. Be more playful, more flirty, hit her with negs or shit like that. Calibrated. Please don't be that creepy tryhard guy who's trying to hit on her with some swagger pickup moves. Either she will respond with instinct or rationally.
Second point: Leverage
Once she notice 'you can' with other girls, her vagina sauce will start floating. She will start chasing you.
Third point: Be a dick.
Be a nice dick. Not a dick dick.
Fourth point: Don't be fat.
~ Good luck Mofo!

dragonhunter031 · 2017-09-08T00:57:06+00:00

you are getting oneitis , ghost her or just accept that you are only a friend if you dont like being her friend then cut her off. start gaming you can game at any stage in your life it is always the most proactive thing to do

Kuroshiji · 2017-09-07T18:33:48+00:00

Im still younger than you so take this lightly. Move on and try to find some fresh meat, it is simply easier and more logical for you to find someone else than trying to change your identity - when she knows your true self.

Framefame · 2017-09-07T21:37:33+00:00

LTR's aren't death traps. Keeping a healthy LTR is a great exercise in frame control and self-improvement. Just make sure you don't spend all your teenage years on one girl.

NoFapColdShower · 2017-09-08T01:07:44+00:00

move on and fuck other girls, BUT you can fuck your oneitis if you raise your smv and if you're at 29% it seems pretty clear what you need to do. Start lifting and cut down to about 12 percent. that along with your non-beta attitude shift will probably have her wanting you. IGNORE all shit tests (supposedly weight loss shit tests are a big thing because people hate to see others engaging in self improvement) EDIT: and ghost if none of the above works. but in the mean time don't focus too much energy on her or else you'll still be beta accept you'll be hamstering to yourself that you are becoming alpha. not a good thing

stealthcreeper · Fri Sep 8 12:36:18 2017 UTC

Oneitis Alert!!!

When you only have one egg in your basket, then you lost.

Use her for bait.

Most girls are not friend material, but that one looks like a true friend (been there for you, helps you in school etc).

Just make sure that she isn't just using you for validation/ emotional tamppon.

[deleted] · 2017-09-08T12:36:18+00:00

Oneitis Alert!!!

When you only have one egg in your basket, then you lost.

Use her for bait.

Most girls are not friend material, but that one looks like a true friend (been there for you, helps you in school etc).

Just make sure that she isn't just using you for validation/ emotional tamppon.

ishyman · 2017-09-07T19:48:53+00:00

Sounds like you want to keep her as a friend. Sure keep her, but keep spinning plates. Girls love guys who have a lot game, once she sees this she'll feel jealous. From there it's up to you To escalate. So cut contact, keep everything to a minimum.

FrancoB42 · 2017-09-07T18:52:24+00:00

Read the fucking rules before you post

breathintoyourballs · 2017-09-07T23:06:36+00:00

man you have to start gaming girls right now your mind is just giving you excuses to keep you in your comfort zone !

and please leave that girl alone move on, get other hoes you are still 18 you have a hell of a life ahead of you

f4yth_nd · 2017-09-07T21:31:23+00:00

first coment from me ... forget everything and just focus in you, its simple you are starting too grasp your true self, if you want her to change her mind, you need to stop thinck in that and continue evolving, create your better self have trust in you, and forget about trying with her focus on you and sooner or later She will come to you from herself.

Title	My Monk Mode Variant
Author	FrancoB42
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	September 7, 2017 5:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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