How you can be friends with women and still go your own way.

NotLuceBree · 2018-10-31T13:02:51+00:00

Couple years ago, with regard to my female "friendships", I started asking myself "would I accept this kind of behavior from a male friend?"

If more Simps applied that simple test, they would notice how annoying women are, even when you're not fucking them.

TB409 · 2018-10-31T13:12:16+00:00

I tried it only because I was already friends with a chick before discovering mgtow. Honestly it will slow down your progression going yow until you finally get there and when you do she will grow tired of your lack of catering to her. Ive done a lot for this woman and now that I look back I can't say if she wouldve done even half of the things ive done for her, for me. In these last 6 months I've finally hit peak not giving a fuck and I know she sensed it. I stop doing things for her until she did things for me first and she complained everytime. I was staring awalt in the depth of her eyes. I stopped messaging her first, I stopped trying to make plans, I stopped giving a fuck about making her happy it became more important that I put myself first before everyone and I've become a much happier person for it. Oh but she hated this.

One night she snapped. She was saying that I don't care and I'm not giving her enough attention and im an asshole and yadda yadda yeet. It became clear that it was all about her. It didn't matter if I was happy, if she wasn't happy we both weren't allowed to be happy. This was suppose to be my friend, right? Wrong.

Anyone friends with a woman try not caring for just 1 month. Don't text first, don't try n make plans, don't compliment her, don't listen to her problems, nothing. Have nothing to offer her and watch how fast she starts to change. Women and men can not just be friends. It just doesn't work. We are made different genders for 1 reason only and that's to create more people and if you're not creating more people you are ultimately wasting your time hanging out with a woman.

I'm down to 1 fwb, not really friends, we just meet up every other week and fuck around and I know once this bitch either gets clingy or crazy I'm going to be ready to go monk. Ive given up on caring about what a woman wants and I feel great. If I ever feel the need to dominate a woman again I'll just hire an escort.

coinstash · 2018-10-31T13:44:26+00:00

Nothing wrong with being pleasant to other people, male or female. That doesn't imply you want them in your life at any intimate level.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-31T12:43:30+00:00

Yep. Friendship is only possible with people who have morals. Therefore, most men and ALL women do not qualify.

marcopoloman · 2018-10-31T14:21:33+00:00

Same way I have friends who believe in god. Just because someone is a wrong about something don't mean you cant be friends.

drksouled · 2018-10-31T13:18:45+00:00

Ask yourself, would Notorious BIG have been friends with a female? No, because "hoes is irritating like the hiccups"

TonyMGTOW · 2018-10-31T12:49:54+00:00

Waste of fuckin time m8

omg_ppl_are_stupid · 2018-10-31T17:34:11+00:00

I have one female friend. She is a butch lesbian, and it's fucking awesome, she's going through a divorce and SHE IS FLABBERGASTED that i know every next step her femme ex wife is going to do. Redpill/mgtow is SO FUCKING truthful it hurts. She's pretty chill, has a beer, we check out chicks and it's almost like having one of the dudes, except she still over thinks everything, and still thinks like a women when it comes to treating her daughter in the daughters accountability vs her son. Which she happily accepts my thoughts and feelings when it comes to that and she tries to make changes but says she's still a women and still can't think like a dude.

pauljs75 · 2018-10-31T17:15:55+00:00

It's easy. Be platonic about it, don't have any expectations for intimacy and make it clear that they shouldn't either. If they ask something of you, there's no freebies. Either they need to help with some chore in turn, or pay cash, or perhaps be willing to hang out or pay for a for a meal or something. (If they disappear or turn that down, then they're probably not worth hanging with.)

groovybooboo · 2018-10-31T13:07:35+00:00

Men and women can’t be friends. No exceptions to this rule.

sphinx2626 · 2018-10-31T15:39:58+00:00

I enjoy many activities that are majority female participants. Having female friends is not impossible but you REALLY have to have the right personality for it.

Edit: never ever meet any of them privatly at there place or yours. Always public places or venues ONLY!

Sucks so bad that our females were duped so easily to accept such toxic ideaologies under the guise of "higher education" and "feminism".

fishmoth · 2018-10-31T17:05:14+00:00

Why not? Just don’t take shit from them. Treat them like you would treat a male friend.

user_miki · 2018-10-31T17:19:34+00:00

Most people don't realize that friendship goes both ways.If only one is "friend",the other is a leach.Better no leach friends.

NoThirst · 2018-10-31T19:16:25+00:00

I have 2 female friends, but its based upon history...I've known them both for many years. There is no attraction. I have zero interest in meeting new female friends...After my divorce was final one of these friends asked me if I wanted to date a friend of hers also recently divorced..."no" was the answer and she dropped it. What would I rather do? Go on a "date" with a woman I know nothing about, or meet up with some amigos over some brews? Easy choice for me.

ITreatFriend · 2018-10-31T19:33:44+00:00

female friends in my experience:

can be very lovely .... as long as you're useful to them. Then they ghost your ass. My advice: go your own way

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-10-31T20:58:03+00:00

Female's friendship ? What is it ?

RedCentreRat · 2018-10-31T21:28:47+00:00

I have a few and we catch up a few times a month. I just treat it like any other friendship.

2018-10-31T22:17:32+00:00

Downvoted instantly, went inside thread and switched to upvote! To anyone who disagrees who thinks their friend version of AWALT is special let me tell you something...all these "friendships" are one - sided. You are fooling yourself and still pussy blind if you think otherwise. Guarantee you are giving them special treatment and doing favors without even noticing. How do I know? I was in the same boat.

Just ghost em.

Hologormonong · 2018-11-01T04:20:45+00:00

Make it clear you're friends. Both for you and for her. Real friends stay with you even if you have different views on life, so if she don't like it, ditch her. This applies for everyone within your social circle, including family. If you truly are going your own way, then don't let anyone stop you.

2018-11-01T07:59:25+00:00

Truth brother. Friends = beta orbiter and you know this

Highborn_Hellest · 2018-10-31T15:33:05+00:00

You can be friends. I've a few female friends. It's that i don't wanna fuck them that bad. One is not really my type other would be but... she has her issues. Now the thing is that they're good company. I'm a uni student. One gives me her lecture notes if i ask her, the good for drinking nights, so it's not a sausage fest. The thing is i don't really want to be a relationship with any of them, so i look at them as buddies.
While i know women has a different concept of friendship then us man, i don't really care. I don't trust them anyways.
Also, they're really good test subject to talk about TRP/MGTOW, to see their reaction. Sometimes i basically use them as my psychological lab rats to see how they respond to different things. I don't actively do that but that's a plus too.
Oh one more thing. We're not form the us, but the middle/eastern part of Europe :)

SneakyThrowawaySnek · 2018-10-31T16:08:50+00:00

How are female friends stopping me in going my own way? Genuine question.

2018-10-31T14:17:25+00:00

I opened this to comment you can't, oh well.

Title	How you can be friends with women and still go your own way.
Author	footloosemonk
Upvotes	91
Comments	53
Date	October 31, 2018 12:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9syaz5/how_you_can_be_friends_with_women_and_still_go/
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