My daughter’s fiancé name is Bran. Bran is a great guy; ivy league student, future engineer, kind, empathetic. He’s been dating my daughter Lucy for 3 years (They’re both 22). I came home early today to see two cars parked in the driveway. At first, I thought it was just one of her friends, but I opened the door to my house to sounds of the bed creaking. I got closer to the door to hearing the unmistakable sound of sex with a guy that was NOT Bran. I went downstairs to call him (we’re pretty close). I asked if they had an open relationship and he said no confusingly and asked why. I told him that I believe my daughter’s cheating on him, and that she’s upstairs with another guy having sex with him. He refused to believe me so I went upstairs and put the phone on speaker so he could listen for himself. He thanked me through tears and I wished him the best. My daughter is FURIOUS with me. She said I ruined her wedding and ruined her life, and that I can go fuck myself and mind my own business, and just in general screamed and cried and screamed again for 20 minutes. She called me a piece of shit and “not a real man” and that I can go fuck myself and that I’m a horrible excuse for a father. That set me off and I told her that she’s an adult, that she knows actions have consequences, and I wasn’t going to sit here and watch her ruin another guy because she wanted whore around, and she’s welcome to leave whenever she wants. I called my wife and told her about the situation and SHE WAS ON HER SIDE! She said it really wasn’t any of my business, and that family is family, and I should’ve pretended I saw nothing. I’m utterly in shock and quite frankly, disappointed that my wife is justifying cheating like this. We fought too, and I’m sleeping on the couch. I asked my parents and friends and they seemed to think I did the right thing, but I feel pretty fucking low for ripping my family apart. I’m starting to think I really should’ve kept my mouth shut. Was I the asshole for telling her fiancé? TL;DR – My daughter fucked some dude that wasn’t her fiancé and my wife and daughter said I should mind my own business. AITA?
When she came to know about how her husband reacted over his daughter's cheating, she saw the future. If somehow he comes to know about her cheating on him, he will react just like that. Hence she tried her best to defend her daughter.
But in reality, she was defending the situation. She tried her best to make sure to change her husband's mind, and still doing it, no doubt. He already lost his frame when he had to sleep on the couch (seriously, who does that? I'll kick that bitch out if I am her husband). Right now the first thing he needs to do is to get a paternity test (which is close to impossible since his daughter is a grown up now) and then he should inquire about his wife's past. There are more outliers to his wife's past than he knows.
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Thanks for sharing that with me. Reading that made me so much angrier. This is why good men need to avoid women. They will be treated like this. And his bitch of a wife actually defended the thot and said he should have acted like he didn’t see anything. Wow just wow. Why is he the one sleeping on the couch in the house that he’s most likely paying for/paid for, whilst she sleeps on the bed that he probably bought. If she has a problem with him, she should be the one sleeping on the couch. Things like this really piss me off. Anyway thanks again
Dude stood up and did the right thing and now he caves on sleeping on the couch? In his own house? Fuck every inch of that. The wife and daughter can talk shit from the sidewalk. It's my house, my bed, and I'm sleeping in it whether you like it or not. And what right does the wife have to "punish" him like that for telling the truth? Arglbargl....
[–]Porkincarnate[S] 44 points45 points46 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Side note : I dare wager my bottom dollar that his wife is probably cheating on him too.
[–]theanchorman055 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
PLOT TWIST
[–]Crashing_Meteor4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Not really, it would be a plot twist if she wasn't. The only people who outrage at exposing cheating are usually cheaters.
[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"You ruined my wedding!" Uh no you ruined your wedding lol. Funny how females can never own up to their own shit
[–]The_Stumper32 points33 points34 points (1 child) | Copy Link
The dad is a saint.
[–]46-61-62-53[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He even "feels low for ripping his family apart", as if he did anything wrong.
[–]RooR_1634 points35 points36 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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My daughter’s fiancé name is Bran. Bran is a great guy; ivy league student, future engineer, kind, empathetic. He’s been dating my daughter Lucy for 3 years (They’re both 22). I came home early today to see two cars parked in the driveway. At first, I thought it was just one of her friends, but I opened the door to my house to sounds of the bed creaking. I got closer to the door to hearing the unmistakable sound of sex with a guy that was NOT Bran. I went downstairs to call him (we’re pretty close). I asked if they had an open relationship and he said no confusingly and asked why. I told him that I believe my daughter’s cheating on him, and that she’s upstairs with another guy having sex with him. He refused to believe me so I went upstairs and put the phone on speaker so he could listen for himself. He thanked me through tears and I wished him the best. My daughter is FURIOUS with me. She said I ruined her wedding and ruined her life, and that I can go fuck myself and mind my own business, and just in general screamed and cried and screamed again for 20 minutes. She called me a piece of shit and “not a real man” and that I can go fuck myself and that I’m a horrible excuse for a father. That set me off and I told her that she’s an adult, that she knows actions have consequences, and I wasn’t going to sit here and watch her ruin another guy because she wanted whore around, and she’s welcome to leave whenever she wants. I called my wife and told her about the situation and SHE WAS ON HER SIDE! She said it really wasn’t any of my business, and that family is family, and I should’ve pretended I saw nothing. I’m utterly in shock and quite frankly, disappointed that my wife is justifying cheating like this. We fought too, and I’m sleeping on the couch. I asked my parents and friends and they seemed to think I did the right thing, but I feel pretty fucking low for ripping my family apart. I’m starting to think I really should’ve kept my mouth shut. Was I the asshole for telling her fiancé? TL;DR – My daughter fucked some dude that wasn’t her fiancé and my wife and daughter said I should mind my own business. AITA?
[–]Speed_Junkie22 points23 points24 points (2 children) | Copy Link
As if he has to sleep on the sofa. For what? Not being a participant in a despicable scheme?
[–]theoracleofosiris16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
For one, no man should ever sleep on the couch in his own house which he is paying.
For two, that he was subjected to that because he did the honourable thing just shows what a sorry fuck state society has become.
[–]46-61-62-53[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
His wife agreeing with the daughter speaks volumes of her view on cheating.
[–]theanchorman0511 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Not surprised this got deleted. Anything that makes women look bad must go!
[–]cryptotim7072623 points24 points25 points (0 children) | Copy Link
So he has integrity and morals, but somehow it's his fault? Damn, her rationalization hamster is on crack.
[–]PrinceRaj5325 points26 points27 points (1 child) | Copy Link
His wife is cheating on him, simple as that.
When she came to know about how her husband reacted over his daughter's cheating, she saw the future. If somehow he comes to know about her cheating on him, he will react just like that. Hence she tried her best to defend her daughter.
But in reality, she was defending the situation. She tried her best to make sure to change her husband's mind, and still doing it, no doubt. He already lost his frame when he had to sleep on the couch (seriously, who does that? I'll kick that bitch out if I am her husband). Right now the first thing he needs to do is to get a paternity test (which is close to impossible since his daughter is a grown up now) and then he should inquire about his wife's past. There are more outliers to his wife's past than he knows.
[–]40moreyears1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Very perceptive.
[–]EatonMicucci10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely wife is cheating. Now he's sleeping on the couch? Hm, that's suspicious
[–]Daman_19858 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This man it's a hero.
[–]Jay_ellsworth10 points11 points12 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Please tell me someone archived it. The post was removed so all i can read are the comments
[–]Rotarymeister7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]Jay_ellsworth7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for sharing that with me. Reading that made me so much angrier. This is why good men need to avoid women. They will be treated like this. And his bitch of a wife actually defended the thot and said he should have acted like he didn’t see anything. Wow just wow. Why is he the one sleeping on the couch in the house that he’s most likely paying for/paid for, whilst she sleeps on the bed that he probably bought. If she has a problem with him, she should be the one sleeping on the couch. Things like this really piss me off. Anyway thanks again
[–]Sir_Koopaman10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course the cucked mods censored it. Too many people eating red pills for their liking.
[–]anon_likes_tendies7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
of course the OP is removed.
Yep. Hypergamy isn't falling far from the tree on this one.
[–]KneeDeepThought6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude stood up and did the right thing and now he caves on sleeping on the couch? In his own house? Fuck every inch of that. The wife and daughter can talk shit from the sidewalk. It's my house, my bed, and I'm sleeping in it whether you like it or not. And what right does the wife have to "punish" him like that for telling the truth? Arglbargl....
[–]JayJayEcks1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
His daughter is a slut and a whore and I bet his wife, her momma, the harlot supporter trained her real good.
[–]46-61-62-53[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm wondering why this was removed...
[–]RegiusGeralt0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This man save another man from being divorce raped.